Is a just a phase?

Hi I'm really confused and kind of scared here because I used to think I was strait but I'm not sure. It all started out when I was camping with my friends, we were in the same tent and were going to bed when my friend Andrew suggested we play truth or dare so I said ok. It started out as little things like kissing on cheeks then to making out then I had to lick his ass (I did not enjoy this part) then we (there were three of us) flashed eachother. Then it went to jacking eachother off. Then they had sex but I was very aroused by it. Please help I need answers I still like girls though I was the first out of all my friends to make out with a girl. please help im young and scared i need answers

 

Well don't worry about it, it could be phase or it could be something else. Don't worry about it, if it happens again say in a few months then it probably isn't a phase

 

thanks

 

1st post Hmm.. it sounds like it would just be a phase.. But sex and making out sounds like it could be backed up by something more than just a phase.. like actual homosexual feelings. Don't be too wierded out by it though, it's perfectly cool Although, I have to admit that is kinda hot...

 

lol actually that happened a couple months ago but now im not sure if it is a phase, I don't care im cool with accepting it but I have a catholic family it might be a bit hard for them to take it in lol

 

also i had been drinking when i wrote that, it makes me feel kind of ridicoulus

 

Hey dude, i'm still trying to wrap my head around this whole sexuality thing too (I'm 22). I like girls, but guys turn me on and it's incredibly frustrating! What you describe is something (from what i've read on forums and my own experience) that happens fairly frequently. Young boys mess around with each other a lot.

Even though i don't have a great deal of experience on the matter, i feel strongly that to be gay you need to feel like you need to be with a man to be happy. Physical attraction doesn't make you gay, and it doesn't make you anything in my opinion other than curious. When you find out which sex makes you happy, then you'll know....

 

Thanks for everyones input

 

lol i wanna go camping now i think ur bi but if ur not sure fuck around with one of thoes guys and see if ya like it

 

my fams chatholic too and what they dont know wont hert em

 

Ok look, certain things can be phases of course, my friend became really emo and went between straight, bi, and gay alot, he eventually grew out of that, however, to clarify no one is 100 percent straight or gay, really.

Your brain registers things as sexual, and what happened was sexual, so it's only natural you responded to it. Don't worry about it so much.

 

^ thats tru but i think the part waire yall jerked eachother off made it gay

 

So? Who cares if you're gay in the first place? Also, I mean, many straight people become curious in their life, it's normal. Alot of people will say just because you have done a homosexual act or whatever doesnt necessarily make you gay, it's if you are physically attracted to the same gender.

 

if u werent physically attracted why would u do anything in the first place.......bottom line if u liek cock ur gay if u liek cock and vagina ur bi

 

Sounds to me like the guy who suggested 3 guys play truth or dare could be gay/bisexual. You're obviously not alone, there were 3 of you there and they had sex so whatever you're feeling, they're probably feeling the same, squared.

No-one has to knwo what's going on in your head and no-one can tell just by looking at you so relax. You can be free in feeling what you want, letting yourself see guys in a sexual way if it happens, and knowing you don't have to explain yourself to anyone yet. JUst let yourself experiment mentally, think about guys, think about guys and girls together, maybe you with them, let your mind wander and relax. You've got time.

Hope all is well.
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