Is it ok to cheat on you?

I know that this is a private subject for some people so I'm going to make the poll a secret. If you care to make a comment then you can write it in here.

 

no.

 

you mean, if i were seeing a guy would it be okay for him to cheat on me? fuck that shit, i dont date guys who would do that to me anyhow. i have been cheated on once, and all my guy friends jumped him and that asshole got FUCKED UP.

 

What a weird question. Of course not.

 

No. its not ok.

 

It's not as weird as you may think. (Cute doggie.) I keep hearing time and time again that Ladies allow the guy to come back.

 

Yea only if its a hot guy and she tells me about it same with my gf i make sure that its ok wit them that if i cheat its ok

 

Sure, it happens, but I honestly don't think that anyone would say it's ok to be cheated on. Even if you can forgive, it still doesn't mean it's ok.
(Fluffy says thank you.)

 

I do not think that it is okay. I would be heartbroken if my husband cheated on me. It would shatter all trust. I think I give him a my all. I wouldn't understand it and it would be devasting to me.

Forgiveness would be very hard to overcome. I am not saying I would be incapable of it but I would have a difficult time. It could take years.

Why do something so selfish and ruin a good thing? On the flip side if the marriage wasn't a good thing then I would say get some serious help before you shatter one's trust.

 

Trust should be cherished. Always try and understand what will shatter it.

 

I don't cheat and I don't expect to be cheated on.

 

Ditto. I don't think I could stay with sig other if he cheated. Like Peanuts said, it would shatter all trust.

 

am I the only person in this hippy forum thats in an open relationship?

S

 

i guess its ok once i could accept it but never again

 

I'm not in a relationship right now. But, I am taking applications for a girlfriend.

 

how much experience is needed and do you need references?

S

 

No, you're not.

I am too.

 

My primary requirement is.........breathing.

 

you can still be cheated on in an open relationship

 

exactly and i was gonna add something to that.

i cheated in my open relationship and i felt horrible and told him about it and he's totally forgiven me. people make mistakes but if they KEEP making them, then that is a problem.