Is it too much to soon?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Brand New Soul, Apr 1, 2006.

  1. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Alright I haven't even gone out with this guy for a week and already he wants to be with me everyday. Sweet but I do have other people I would like to see. Hes nice and all, but hes already boring me! Is there something wrong with me? This weekend I told him I would be going to my grandmas house, he wanted me to go to his hockey game and to his party afterwards with his parents and what not. But I couldn't go because I had already made preveus ingagements with my grandmother. Anyways he called my house today looking for me.....And he knew perfectly well that I was at my grandmothers house cause I had just talked to him last night. I don;t know I kinda feel smothered or something.

    I feel terrible for feeling this way...! But I don't know its moving to fast, and well I just think hes asking for to much to soon! And when we are together its just boring.....he talks about sports....and I talk about having fun, going to parties and dreams and living life....stuff along those lines. I mean we aren't even on the same page.... He is a great person...But as I have said I feel trapped and bored with him. Too much to soon, I guess.

    So what do I do? Do I tell him?....Or do I wait a while and see if my feelings change? Do I ask him to slow down!

    I really apprecitate anyone who gives me advice on this!
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    Communicate with him! Let him know you need a little more space, that when you say you're busy you're genuinely busy. That it's ok to spend time apart, ya'll don't need to be attached at the hip 24/7
     
  3. Hikaru Zero

    Hikaru Zero Sylvan Paladin

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    My thoughts exactly.
     
  4. .Hannah.

    .Hannah. Member

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    Yes, but be gentle. Think of it being the other way around.
     
  5. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I dont think its too much too soon, sounds like youre not into him and he is into you
     
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