I have been stuck on this little fantasy and I need to know if this is within the sphere of normal. I have a fantasy of having a sexual relationship with someone who is my father. (NOT MY ACTUAL FATHER - that is a disgusting idea to me) Just someone I imagine is my father. It is SOOO exciting to me. Is this considered normal?
Not really. Oh well, fantasies are what they are. That said, I bet you could easily convince an older guy to let you call him "Dad" as he boned ya. Cheers then.
And you're Jamie as in a girl Jamie, or a boy Jamie? Just so you know, fantasizing about fathers or mothers IS more common than meets the eye. I mean, I recently found this porn material where the actresses pretend to be your stepdaughters and give you what they call "jerk off encouragement/instruction". Let's just say, I did what Lexi Belle(one of the actresses) told her "daddy" to do...and I'm not even that old, lmao. xD Anyway, it's a fantasy. You already said you wouldn't want to do anything sexual with your actual father. I say enjoy your fantasy.
I don't know dear, but why on earth would you want to be normal? I don't think it's that odd really- if it was your actual father that would be unhealthy! But I think you just like the idea of making love with someone who you're not supposed to sleep with. The risk factor, because it's taboo, "naughty". A lot of women moan "ohh daddy" when they're in bed...I see it in old films anyways so there must be some sort of culture reference there. I'm sure you're not alone in this fantasy.
There are plenty of D/S relationships out there where the dom is "Daddy" and not "Sir" Not my cup o'tea but The Father Figure is a very common fantasy.
it can't be that unusual, considering at least 20% of porn involves actors pretending to be father and daughter. don't see why they would bother if it wasn't a common fantasy.
i cant imagine how much time it took to watch 20% of all porn lol...lots of woman go out with 'father figures'...you worded your post a bit on the creepy side..you have an older man fantasy...and thank goodness for us older men
well Jamie in my book would be a guy, and younger guys going with daddies is quite common - noit normally their own tho'! and if you're female, then many girls often pick someone with their father's attributes. normal is only that which become commonly accepted - someone has to start the trends - go for your own gut feelings Simon :sunny:
I think it has alot to do with liking to be told what I can and can't do, punishment, love, all these things.
