I'm a virgin but I can get very horny if a guy just scratches my back or touches me(not just my privates). I really don't want sex to hurt when I eventually do it. Because I seem to get 'ready' really fast/easily, is there a chance that I will be able to enjoy sex the first time I have it?
of course u can enjoy it, i cant say it wont be nerve racking and a bit painful. coz everyone is diffrent, but if ur relaxed and feel good on the build up to it then the chances are it will be pleasent
I learned a little trick around the age of 18 before deflowering two lovely ladies (not at the same time, unfortunately) who were virgins that I talked into giving it up just to see what a fuck is like simply because they didn't know. The female curiosity, if given the proper sales pitches by the male, will override any reluctance due to the lack of "feelings" or whatever emotional tilt is used to ponder first intercourse. Masturbate your pussy to the brink of orgasm a few times before going through with the deed. Do it before you leave to go where it is you're going to finally fuck or go to the bathroom at the guy's house before getting it on and by all means - take your time in bringing yourself to the brinks. The guy, if he's truly willing, will be patient and allow you to complete your prior task. That way when sex finally does commence it will slip in nicely and smoothly with the least amount of first-time pain. Or maybe no pain will occur at all. Plus your clit and g-spot will be dying to be stimulated and thus satisfied. You could have a mind splitting orgasm for all you know if that's how you carry out your goal. Females seem to be able to have almost pussy exploding orgasms after being brought to the brink of orgasm repeatedly and then finally allowing themselves to fully cum. Us guys, on the other hand, we just get blue balls which hinders our fluid's ability to move throughout the plumbing, possibly risking a dribbling and possibly aching-pipes orgasm. But don't go wandering over to your guy's house with simply "Today's the day!" in mind and that alone, then throw yourself onto the bed, dropping pants and spreading wide open without any preparation, such as not getting yourself hot and wet long beforehand. That will surely be cause for some unnecessary pain. Even if you do cum, it could be very "lackluster" which could possibly hinder you from wanting to fuck anytime soon after that. Good luck on your journey. :cheers2: