It's hard to find a serious relationshiop in China

I was just dumped by my ex-bf. we've been together for over 3 years. I always cherished this relationship and made it keep going on, which seemed impossible for gay ppl in China to hold accountability to get into a serious relationship.
He had an affair with my close friend! Unbelievable! they both cheated on me. When my ex wanted to break up, I even turned to my friend for help and he actually convinced me break-up right now! Afterwards, I knew they two hooked up! I cried and cried, like in hell. and so disappointed.
Things in U.S can be different right? at least once u start up a relationship with ur partner, u treat this seriously and not that casually..

Feel awful about this.. I am not sure i can get over him..
basically this is my first true love, ending up like this.. well, my friends told me time heals, but i wonder how long it is gonna take..

 

to be honest with you, people suck just as badly in north america... people cheat and lie here too
i hope you feel better soon seriously shitty situation

 

I mean really?? Can't believe this..

 

Of course. Cheating is an international phenomenon.

You'll find serious relationships hard to come by anywhere. Maybe in America people are more likely to stay together for a long time, but I think that's just because we are bred to pursue the "American Dream," which involves finding a life mate and raising children. Needless to say, though, a lot of these people are just as unhappy if not more unhappy than single people or people who are in non-serious relationships.

I'm so sorry you've had your heart broken. It WILL get better, though. And before too long, you'll find someone you love even more and who will treat you right.

 

They are all Right. They cheat over in america too. People don't know that it don't solve anything. It only makes matters worse and hurts the other parnter. Specially if you want the real relationship to work. Trust and everything you think about was lies ,all lies. You wonder when was the truth and when did the lies begin. Things they just told you, just to say them. NO MEANING. Just words. IT HURTS. Then you wonder. If they LOVED you like they say, then why did they do it??? That is the Question! I can go on, but I will leave it at that. I hope that with time my heart will heal,as do yours.

 

It's hard to find a serious relationship anywhere.