its taking me longer to get over her than the relationship itself

Okay, so i was with wonderful girl. We got/get along great.(still friends) So my own nephew who is a year younger than me starts talkin bullshit to her and telling her im cheating right. Because he was jealous of the time i was spending with her, and hanging way less with him.. He kept at till eventually she broke up with me. My major prob right now is that its taking me way longer to get over her than the relation ship itself lasted. together 4 months, and we broke up a year ago, still love her, we are friends, but its hard for me to be her friend because i always want to be more than friends and this really bites. The very worst part is, that i didnt do anything wrong!! Ended over some lies from my nephew.

P.S. Yes there were hard feelings toward my nephew for awhile. but we're over it. Hes always been my best bud and still is.

 

is it messed or what? i need someones oppinion on my situation or some good advice to consider

 

4 months, not that long, if u love her tell her, if she belived the lies there was no trust, pick another flower brother.

 

ive had a whole boquet of flowers, it always comes down to, i want this girl... yeah we were only together for 4 mnths, but i had love for her way b4 we started dating

 

I think she does believe me now, and i think we'd be together if i had my own place.. as her parents moved out of state and she stayed here in missouri, now shes using this dude for a place to live so she doesnt have to move to new mexico too... the whole sticky situation kinda sux bad

 

Is she not just leeding u on, let go bro, find something to fill the whole till ur next lady comes along, as if she is not doing any thing with tho other guy, what ever u do dont get down on it man, many times theres a shella u never thought of and shes dieing to be with you, chill and ride the wave, peace

 

Right on man

 

Credit you for having a heart. At least you really felt something real for her. People seem to have a disposable attitude about relationships these days.
Get over one lover by getting another one- that kind of ish.

It will take as long as it takes to get over her. Don't sweat it but end that "friendship" noise with her NOW!
No point in being friends with an ex unless you've got kids together, it will just make getting over her take longer. Also it will kill you once she starts riding the next one!

 

It can take ages to get over someone if you really liked them, especially if shit ended suddenly or for some retarded reason...I'm still not completely over my last gf...We drove passed the last place I kissed her the other day, fucking depressing, I got dumped in January too...

 

with all do respect kj, i am not going to end our friendship intentionally.. shes an awsome person.. id rather be her friend than never see her again just because its hard to get over her.. we still get along fantasticly,, and still do hook up from time to time even tho she has a boyfriend at the moment.