I've got the key!

My boyfriend gave me a key to his flat. Totally out of the blue, he gave me a key and said, "it's your home too babe"

Am I the only one who thinks this is a huge thing? I was totally flattered and bowled over.

 

That is a very big step in any relationship.
Go suprise him while he is sleeping and crawl into bed with him.
That's great news! Congrats!

 

Yeah awesome news Retro,

I'm glad to hear that this is a significant thing for you because I found it very hard giving my girlfriend one of my cars. I've travelled down to Tasmania recently and left it with her.

Glad to hear you were given a key!

 

Fantastic!

When are you going to empty his medicine cabinet and put all your stuff in there, redecorate the bathroom and bedroom and reorganise the kitchen?

 

Whoa easy dude ....... I don't think Retro is one of those girls.

 

Yes, thats a huge deal. I like what he had to say along with the key. That really made it even better, knowing he feels that strongly and trusts you explicitly.

 

RE: Whoa easy dude ....... I don't think Retro is one of those girls.

Yet.

 

Yes, it's a huge step. Proceed with caution!

Seriously though, congrats sweetie...

 

Dooooommmmmm......

Dooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

jeez, iron. how bad does your wife suck, anyway?

congrats, retro!

though i would probably make a habit of informing your man when you're coming over.

 

She doesn't. But I do.

 

lol. does she put up with it?

 

Complains constantly, won't stand to even let me accidentally brush by her if we're in the same kitchen, goes on about how much I suck, makes the remark during our wedding anniversary she wishes I was dead....

...Lousy partner.... lousy husband.... lousy father.... not what she wanted.... when are you gonna get with the program...... etc.

 

wow. that sounds like my mom and dad. and you never say anything bad?

 

Nope. Just ignore her, which makes her even more upset.

 

hehe. passive aggressive. i like it. i used to do that to my dad. then i'd drink all his liquor.

 

There's no point in arguing, if the other person simply wants to be right at all costs and turns stuff around on you. That goes for her, too.

 

hehe. we're all so much alike. just goes to show, you should never marry someone exactly like yourself. it's tiresome.

 

I sure as hell am not getting married again.

Should this disintegrate, and she takes off to a different country with the kids, I will simply rent a $400/mo room somewhere with access to a garage and basically maintain a pair of bikes and a vintage hearse, which will be the only possessions apart from some small items of exercise equipment and clothes I will possess.

 

sounds like a piece of heaven for ya, man. i wish you luck, for real. a miserable marriage is hell on earth.