Ok so this question is for the ladies? Ok so i have this problem where I cum almost instantly, it sucks, but as soon as im done i can keep going for a while, and when i say right after i mean less than 5 sec, my question would that be a really big problem for you? thanks for the help....
I'm a male but I've heard several times that women prefer love to sex and that they just give-in to sexual advances out of love. (This is an honest opinion based on stuff I've heard over the years and I'm only replying to you because no-one else has yet) Jealousy causes problems when women 'give-in', out of love, to sexual advances of other men while in a relationship or marriage with another man. Herpes, hepatitis & HIV are the only sexual diseases not curable (as far as I know) so perhaps someday we will be equipped with a simple device like diabetics use to check blood as a reasonable detterent to the spread of disease.
1001, The love over sex and giving into men theory of female sexuality is very antiquated and sexist. Women can and do have lustful desires, orgasms, sexual fantasies, and a sex drive on par if not greater than that of men. The notion that women have no sexual urges is promoted largely by cultural norms and christian/conservative ideals of chastity. That is to say, the sexual reservedness of many females is a product of societal repression rather than an innate lack of desire. The notion that women only submit to sexual advances inhopes of gaining male affection reduces your partner to a whore selling her body for love. What is true on a generalized scale is that emotional connection and sexual desire are more closely linked in women than men. That is to say, part of the sexual attraction for women is the emotional attactment. Men, tend to be more aroused bby physical cues of virility. This goes back to evolution(of course you'll think this whole aregument is BS if you're a creationist). Anyway, to the OP, as a male I can't give you an opinion. Premature ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction if you or your partner feel its a problem. Since you are concerned, its a problem. There are many methods to prolong yourself. Google search it and check the forums. Cheers
"Herpes, hepatitis & HIV are the only sexual diseases not curable (as far as I know) so perhaps someday we will be equipped with a simple device like diabetics use to check blood as a reasonable detterent to the spread of disease." Also, HPV is not curable. Cervical cancer linked to HPV is not always curable. There are loads of other diseases that are acquired through sexual contact that aren't curable. I don't know where you're getting your facts.
Check out my thread on "Premature Ejaculation" in the Sexual Health Forum of Love and Sex for 10 techniques to overcum premature ejaculation. PM if you need further help.
I'm glad you brought that up "The American Social Health Association reported estimates that about 75% of sexually active Americans will be infected with HPV at some point in their lifetime." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus "
I got a laugh out of your remark that I am being sexist (discriminating against women) because I think they goodhearted and not sluts.
The idea that a woman who has sex for sex's sake is a slut IS sexist(please don't insult me or others by defining it). It is an idea that limits the socially acceptable role of a woman to subservient spouse who gives into the mans more animal needs. A woman should have the right to express her sexuality in any way she chooses without judgement from you or anyone. Saying a woman can only be good hearted OR sexually liberated is sexist and offensive in the same way as saying a man can only be sexually virile OR emotional. Why can't both sexes be either, neither, or both? I guess we're getting laughs out of eachother. You're looking like a fool, though. I don't know why you're linking us to pages about STD's. The original post had nothing to with them. I only referenced them to point out your original assertion that "Herpes, hepatitis & HIV are the ONLY sexual diseases not curable (as far as I know) " is wrong and you are misguided.
Perhaps there is an English major amongst us who can tell us the term used when the judgement doesn't follow the reasoning. Your wires are crossed somewhere.
Maybe you would like to try this breathing exercise? It works for my man.. From the beginning of sex, breathe slowly and deeply through your nose. Deeply inhale, hold and then slowly exhale. Have sex slowly at first. As you feel orgasm coming closer, focus on keeping this slow relaxed rhythm. If you get your pregasm and have to stop and rest, keeps the same slow nose breathing going during the pause.. We will appreciate Man to be able to last longer during sex. Or else, we will appreciate you giving us good clit stimulation and let us orgasm a few times at least before the actual act.
if you cum too quick, maybe you could say, "i gotta go pee ". before the big bang occurs. rub that first one out above the john and go have fun for a while
