I'm a guy who has been dabbling in cross dressing for quite some time. 20 years or so. I used to live in a very alt friendly place and I discovered my bisexuality through going to fetish parties. Anyways. I liked to wear a short skirt, lacey underwear and white thigh high nylons when I would go to these parties. A vast majority of the people there would be fully done up. What I mean is the guys would be dolled up completely; sexy outfit, high heels, wigs and make up. Meanwhile I would just have on my skirt and wouldn't even attempt to pass as female. It just wasn't something I wanted. I just wanted to wear my revealing clothes but still look and act like a guy. I like the feeling of my skirt riding up when I bend over. So be it. Though my predilections are not universally known, I am very comfortable with who I am and how I like to be sometimes. I just feel as though I was never fully accepted by the trans community because I only wanted to be a guy wearing clothes society deems female. I have no desire to be seen as female. I do find guys who want to be seen as women very sexy though. I was just wondering how common this is. Are there many guys into wearing lingerie that still want to be seen as fully male? Do you enjoy wearing a black hoody and a denim mini skirt with a thong and garter while you drink beer and smoke cigars? Just wondering.
I have heard of other crossdressers that have preferred to wear a dress while sporting a mustache. I might agree to meet the person in a closed setting but I surely don't want to be out in public with him. That would draw all kinds of comments and scrutiny. That's asking to be read.
Since I have a beard long enough to braid, I'm well aware that my cross dressing would be obvious...painfully so in the wrong neighborhood, well, most neighborhoods in the immortal words of duke the punk "I blame society, society made me what I am." it really is societies hang up though...at one point in western culture a women wearing pants was considered unseemly but apparently we are ok with women embracing masculinity but we are far from ok with men embracing femininity...sad
Im wearing a Pink Sports(new york 88) skirt over a pair of grey leggings. I dont have any make up on., I look like a regular freak. Im wearing male Colombia sandals with no socks. Only my big toe has nail polish on it. Actually its more like marker pen (i covered up the smile face) I have on a regular tshirt. But the truth is. I'm wearing this pink skirt because. While smoking doobies, I dont want to burn my good legging wear (ua sports is expensive).. and the pink skirt I really dont care much about. So I crossdress just to fuck around and be different, because I dont give a fuck. my hair is purple though.. Earache My Eye..:2thumbsup:
I think you've really hit the nail on the head there. In the very early episodes of Star Trek TNG they desperately tried to keep the miniskirts of TOS by speculating that it would have become equally acceptable and accepted for men to wear them ... but that didn't last very long. For scotsmen to wear kilts on formal occasions, and even occasionally as everyday wear, is generally accepted ... but you try and see the reaction when a Sassenach dons the kilt! It's strange really, isn't it?
Beachball, you referenced Star Trek TOS and Next Gen, then you used an old Scots Gaelic word...awesome factor plus 100 sexy
I'm a bi curious person and love hose and putting on heels as well if i really want to look as a woman but I don't wear other stuff but because of my curiosity i have wanted to dress full drag sometimes because it seems when it comes to sexuality in what you wear the women have the nicer feeling things and can get away with it more on a public sense like wearing the shortest skirt with no panties but just hose and a button up blouse.
orison319...hot...i especially like your calf muscle on your right leg cman...you're right, women do have a larger choice when it comes to comfort i find a well fitting corset and a short skirt to be super relaxing...and it gives me a boner i really want to hang out with another cross dresser and order pizza and play "call of duty"...think about it, mini skirt, garter belt showing with hot pink thigh high fishnets, black pvc corset...stoned and double cheese pepperoni while you pretend to shoot big guns on my 50" LED...ok...that just gave me a boner too...
I think about being somewhere where there is nothing but nice looking guys as well myself just to look at and hang around with because i enjoy looking at other nice built guys in hose
cman...totally, i've always been more of a pub guy than a club guy so a setting that has conversation level music and quality pints and all the guys are wearing something frilly would be great beachball...good aim
I just love seeing a nice figured person in hose so 2 be in a place where we rare running round in some hose is thrilling to think about but in a way it's hotter to see a man because women in them are hid in the front because of how the hose are made but a man with a nice size rod or even a guy having a stiff is never hidden but just covered and it looks good.
