Only lightly been involved in this type of activity, but I was always the dominant one. I must say it does get me going a little bit, thinking about a women ordering me around, putting me in panties, making me her loveslave, etc.. but I don’t care for the pegging side of things. Is this a specific type of BDSM? Not really into being humiliated, just being bossed around a bit.
It's called marriage. In all seriousness, you should try it (the bdsm, not marriage). I was always dominant until I went to a Pro Domme. It opened up a whole new world to me and now I love dominant women. Pegging and humiliation are just niche activities. Plenty of other things to do.