Last nights encounter, o' my....

Last night I was at a rave *in the middle of a forest*,
and I was really high and kinda drunk...
I was pretty busy dancing *it was like 2am*,
and I noticed this one guy kept staring at me...

I decided to go over and talk to him..
since he was just standing around..
He turned out to be really nice, we went for a walk to get to know one another a bit..
we walked for about an hour..
Then I noticed that we wernt even near anyone anymore,
we were in the middle of the forest by some river...

well, I wasnt looking to get layed.. And he was..
He kept trying to take off my shirt and kiss me...
It was really ocward, I was not into it..


He asked me what I wanted to do, I said "Go back to the rave";
He said "I was leaning more towards sex".

I hate those situations... **tears**..
He just wouldent back off, and I had to run away... i didnt know where the fuck i was going..
which was REALLY fucked because
I was drunk and high.. I was falling all over the place..


Has anyone been through this type of situation??

 

crazy... if you say no, it should mean no......

 

Yea, i've been in a similar situation, only i wasnt able to run away. I was raped a year ago, and it's changed my life completely. It's scary, and you're not the only one who has experienced things like this. Just remember when you feel uncomfortable in a situation get out of it as quick as possible, and no always means no.

 

yea "running away" is an understatement...

I more or less, pushed him, said "fuck off" and then stormed off into the bush...

which probably wasnt the smartest thing in the world to do...

 

no, it is the smartest thing to do... just think of what could have happened if you wouldnt have been forceful. I know it seems like you're being a bitch or what not, but you have to look out for yourself.

 

Slightly similar situations....but when I was 14.

 

Any man who rapes or tries to rape a woman should have his genitals cut off with a nail file... And if I ever saw someone beeing raped I would do it myself on the spot

 

Really sucks that something like that had to happen.
greg

 

I've had that happen to me before, luckily my friends weren't too far away.

 

Taking walks with strange men into a forest doesn't help either. If you wanted to stay at the rave you should have stayed at the rave.

 

she was drunk and high, probably still thought she was at the rave

 

I was about to say the same thing. Wouldnt it be better if she just found a guy that she could hang out with and talk to and just chill with without having to fear for herself?
greg

 

Well... considering my friends totally ditched me the whole night because they were all on meth, shrooms, and E... I didnt know what eles to do.. I was totally baked out of my mind on pot, and a lil E....pluse i had been drinking too..

I know it was stupid of me.. But I seriously thought we were going to his camp or something... didnt turn out that way..

meh.. now I feel guilty.. fuk

 

Don't feel guilty, wasn't your fault... You can't just suspect everybody of beeing rapeists and such...

 

RE: Well... considering my friends totally ditched me the whole night because they were all on meth, shrooms, and E... I didnt know what eles to do.. I was totally baked out of my mind on pot, and a lil E....pluse i had been drinking too..

That's part of your problem right there.

 

ok?? This is my fault?
I cant control what my friends do..

I Also could not predict what that guys cruel intentions.
I just thought I was making a new friend...
Maybe I am just too gullible.?

 

Don't say that you could never know, irongoth is just beeing a dumb shit right now...

If you had to suspect ever guy thats a little friendly what kinda of world would we live in then

Cheer up babe, luckily nothing happend... Just buy some mace or something like that

 

Uh, yeah. First of all your friends are a bunch of druggies, and you go and get yerself twisted in the middle of nowhere.

That's not intelligent at all.

I'm not a drug user but if I was, I'd make sure there were some "dedicated sober" people around to do things like suggest, oh, a guy leading you into dark woods might have rape on his mind...

 

Why are you so annoyingly self-righteous... In what twisted world would it ever be her fault that this happend???

 

Lakshen - Let's put it this way. When I ride my motorcycle, I do so sober - in full control of my faculties. If the road is wet, I slow down, if there's people driving stupid I keep away from them. I wear a helmet and full leathers. I am still alive.

If you're going to do something inherently dangerous, like drugs, it's best to make sure you have some controls on the situation.

I have no sympathy for "well, this guy, from Nigeria, on the Internet emailed me and asked for my credit card number, passport photocopy, social security number and the next thing I knew he'd cleaned out my bank account!" WELL DUH.

Likewise "So I got drugged up, with unreliable people who also got drugged up, and then this guy, seeing a young naive girl inebriated and solitary, abandoned by her friends, decided to lead me into the woods and GOOD GOLLY next thing you know he's trying to get me to take my clothes off!" WELL DUH.