Let's talk about sex

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Let's talk about you and me

 

Sex is fun and educational.

 

there is much to be learned from talking about sex

 

Augh, I just had some for the first time in like a month and a half and holy shit...it was awesome. I guess that's what happens when you let tension build up for 6 weeks...maybe that was his goal...whatever the case, I feel like way less of a bitch now.

 

i get the feeling you enjoy sex with dead corpses more than that of the living kind


>_<

 

maybe that's why my wife waits weeks between fuckings.....

 

I like sex.

It's a nice part of life, truly enjoyable and good for you in so many ways. We shouldn't be so frigid about it, or take it so seriously.

Some women don't enjoy sex, I find. They seem to do it because it is expected from them, and maybe they feel some acceptance from it. But they don't really like it, possibly from some issue they have, guilt or what have you, and because of this they are unable to be free and enjoy it, and it becomes a vicious circle.

I don't like sex if the person I'm with is not into it. Well, it's still alright, but it'll never be good and certainly not sensational, which is my favorite kind of sex.

 

then perhaps you aren't doing it right?

though it's true many women must learn to reach orgasm solo before they are able to let go and allow a partner to bring them to climax. and a lot of psychological factors play into this, such as previous history in regards to sexuality. bad past experiences can certainly have an undesirable impact on a woman's ability to enjoy her sexuality.

but i prefer to just assume you don't know how to get a woman off.:cheers2:

 

I didn't really enjoy sex with my first two partners. I mean, sometimes it was okay, and foreplay I liked, but the actual sex act seemed like a chore. It felt good for a minute and after that it was just like...Okay, when is this going to be over?
Thank god it was just that we weren't really that compatible, and not actually that I don't like sex. The person I'm with now is am-azing. It's like we read each others mind and know exactly what one another likes. Sex went from being alright to something that left me wanting more even after six or seven hour sessions. I guess part of that has to do with me being older and more experienced and open minded and comfortable with myself as well, but sexual compatibility is a major thing that I think some women may overlook because they don't want to lose the person they love.

Even though I just realized that this was one of those copycat threads, I seem to be liking the "Let's talk about..." threads so far. Maybe we should keep this theme going haha

 

That's a fair assumption. In reality, though, it is indeed because they are unable to be free or comfortable, and it is easy to tell when this is the case. It could be because of a number of reasons, like some of the ones you mentioned. Also, some people aren't compatible, physically or mentally, or don't have the right chemistry.

How are you doing with your neighbor? Have you determined how free she is with herself yet, like you promised you would?

 

Jesus christ! Your guy (or is it girl? that would explain it) can not be much older than you are. I ceased my 6-8 times per night nights when I was about twenty. Now I'll go maybe twice, and certainly not for six fucking hours! Can I claim I put quality before quantity? Yes, I can, and I do.

I think you are very right about compatibility, but also being comfortable with yourself. A lot of people, women especially, are uncomfortable with their naked selves, and so their mind is racing with uncertainty and concern, not allowing them to just be in the moment and enjoy what's going on.

 

I admit, probably the majority of those hours are spent doing all kinds of things besides penetration, but it's mind blowingly awesome regardless... And yeah, he is actually 5 months younger than me.

And yes, being in the moment and not thinking/worrying about other things while doing the act, makes it 100 times better.

 

I see.
Yeah, foreplay and afterplay are important parts of it all - though I guess I don't actually count them as sex. I enjoy both for decent amounts of time, but I guess I often need to be up in the morning so I want to take care of business so I can get some damn sleep.

That's awesome, though. A good sexual relationship really is important to the relationship outside of the bedroom, and if you're that compatible in there I'm sure you're very compatible elsewhere as well. Not a lot of people have this, you understand. Good for you.

 

I'm not married, but close enough to it, and fucking shit, isn't this the truth?

 

Why is that?

I mean, I used to be in a similar situation. I don't understand why it played out like that, though. And strangely, I was the one who didn't want sex that often.

 

NOT MARRIED?!?!?!?!

 

I was married for 10 years. Longest 20 years of my life.

 

Boo. Boring. Sex is not to be talked about:cheers2: