make him surge with pleasure*

okietay, so i hope i choose tha right sub forum, but any ways... =)
i have a question... for those who wouldnt mind helping me out a bit *

alright so i kinda just started seein this guy, and its an awkward situation... hes overage...has some years on me

when we met, it was at my girlfriends party...yaknow...a schnoggered night*...
we didnt do much... but since then weve been talkin and we started seein eachother... tha thing is he feels like he is takin advantage or me and doing something wrong because of how much older he is... so the other night we were talking about how he is ok with " jus kissing and holding me and talking to me " tha works you know... he said that im going to get board with him within tha next 2 and a half years ( til i turn 18 haha )...

tha thing is before all this... wow it had been a long time since i even....kissed anyone sober yaknow haha... which prolly sounds bad, but what are ya gonna do... i havent even used my hands yet... NOT EVEN FELT IT//// ya know so im even going slow for myself ha...being in which that im a little horndog... we all have it in us =)

anyways so usually when tha time comes too fool around its usually after a bit of liquid courage...
so yaknow... i get a little smoother...alittle more foreward, nwyas what tha question is...
i know what things i can do with him... or do too him not neccaserilly "having sex "

he really respects me, and treats me well...
tha feeling that he gives me /// whhew
so i want to give him a big treat...

" make him surge with pleasure "

...any advice?


=) thanks so much


peeash*

love

feeling

joy


*dani

 

wow, you really shouldn't be worried about these sort of things at the age of 15? How old is he?

 

eyea... i was readin over my post... when i said i havent even used my hands yet... i meant ...with him haha... but oh yes scarikari ... its not as if im worried, i just wanna do something for him ya know *
ehh jus happens ta be that hes youre age
thanks *

 

how old is he

 

tht was directed to the post above hers which would mean he's 24

 

you're a bit too young to be worried about these things. Go and have fun with your mates instead of worrying about pleasing guys sexually.

 

Good to know you got all these nice moms here to protect you eh?

 

Ah cmon dont be harsh on the girl. I tend to agree, 15s very young...my first sexual experience was at 15, but i wasnt really ready...
But you know, everyones different. Perhaps this young lady is. The age of consent is 16 here. That would only put her a year underage...ah i duno, its her choice i guess.

Xx

 

alright naw...im not talking about sex...
weve talked about it ... and ya know he said hes fine with just yaknow "kissing me and holding me"... says he dosent mind, but he said im gonna get board with him... im not worried tha least bit, i just want to make him feel good...better than good idk...
im still a virgin...
but that dosent mean i havent done other things...
.... i appreciate you ladys lookin out for me
idk i dont exactly lead tha lifestyle of a 15 year old...
im defnietly not interested in growing up any faster though... so its not like that haha


pleasing him any way...when i think of it...
he jus makes me feel GREAT! not even in a sexual way...
and i want to let him knwo tha feeling is mutual...not only in a sexual way... i guess i should have phrased or edited tha question...
let go of tha fact of our age difference for a sec... i feel like ...every detail or i cant even explain what this is...u could only understand fully if u were either of us... ya know


... ? <3

 

Just a hint, the "i'm cool with holding you" thing is probably just an act so you think he's a good guy so you'll do things like what you are asking about here...

Seriously girl, he's over 2/3 of your age older than you. Get a boyfriend your age that you can do 15 year old things with...If you ever want to go to a school dance don't you think some of your teachers will think it's weird that your date is as old as some of them (actually they don't let people that old go to school dances)?



Jeez i wish i knew where all these young girls looking for older boyfriends hung out...

 

alright, wellll...
i dont go to highschool...
im on homeschool now...
forgot tha whole post i guess no worries...... i just wanted to do something nice with him... i already know and have expierenced before that things i can do... i was just looking for over tha top...
but im serious thanks to all you guys that are looking out for me...

<3

 

lay off the booze

I mean.. you shouldn't need "liquid courage" to make out with someone, you should get back to kissing while sober so you can remember it well.

I think it'd be a boost to his confidence as well, that you like him enough ot make out while sober and not under the influence of anything

other than that.... respect him for who he is, don't plan on changing him... guys hate that and so many chicks seem to pull it these days, plans on changing their guy into the "perfect" man

 

Ahahaha. A 24 year old man that's just fine with 'holding and kissing'? What a fake.
Get a boyfriend your own age, honey. This guy is a perv just for being with a 15 year old. Men like that reside in prison. Sick.

 

Jesus moonflower, a bit harsh:| Ive known a few 24 year old men who were just kids themselves. Ive also known a few girls 15, 16, who are very mature, at least as mature as the 24 year old males.
And some men that age just arent ready for a big serious adult relationship...and yes, i agree, they shouldnt really have sex with 15 year olds...seeing as its against the law and everything. But this guy, as far as we know, hasnt done much with this girl. And shes willing. And theyre probably both just kids.
I dont think were in a position to condemn this man, and call him a pervert. We dont know anything about him.

Xx

 

Don't focus so much on pleasing him. Guys have more pleasure and respect when pleasing the girl than the other way around. If you come across as too eager to please, that could make you an easy target to be taken advantage of.

Just have fun being 15 and doing 15 year old things. If you jump into things, you may come out regretting it.

 

24 and 15? that's unacceptable... i'm only 21 but i would never hit on a highschool freshman; that's so inappropriate.

 

American 15 year olds and English and European ones apparently seem to be different things altogether. Over here a 15 year old is approaching adulthood, only one year away from being legally able to say "yes, i want to have sex, and chance the possibility of bringing a child into this world"...
From what ive heard, American 15 year olds are little children...So whos right? Its all very confusing and ambiguous. Whos decided this difference, and why? Scientifically of course the boys are behind the girls in their development, so in the teen years and early 20s, one has to take this into account. Like ive already said, a lot of young men are infact just big boys...a lot of young girls are really mature women...its all very difficult to judge just by numbers.

Xx

 

It's SUPPOSED TO BE HARSH.

It doesn't matter if the 24 year old had the mind of a 12 year old....it's still disgusting and this guy needs to be kicked in the face.
I DO CALL HIM A PERVERT. He needs to be locked away....he's just a predator. Sick son of a bitch.

 

well im 16, and i know how you feel. Ive never dated anyone older than me like that, but i know that u feel like your not too young and that all you want to do is make him as happy as he makes you.
I say dont even care what other people on here are saying about ur age difference. It may be illegal, but if u arent doing anything sexual, then how is he a pervert again? by showing his love for someone, its rediculous to think that people can only fall in love or really really like eachother if they are around the same age. I think any two people can fall for eachother. Shes 15, think of how your mind worked when you were 15, dont say she is too young, i know people who lost their virginity when they were 13. thats even worse when the two people are the same age and have no idea what they are doing.
If you wanna do somehting nice for him, just think of what hobbies he has, music he likes, anything, if he went to college, think of things he's interested in like what he majored in maybe. and make him something that has all those things in it. take a bunch of pictures of things that mean a lot to him, like you and him together, and make a collage. that would be cute.
If u wanted to know sexually how you could please him, cuz thats what it kind of sounded like, i say just go with the flow, and if something happens it happens. Im not going to tell you waht u should do, because idk if ur comfortable with it. i mean you know what you can do, so if u wanna do it, do it haha.
peace~

 

^^^ i thought i put them in paragraphs.... sorry about that one huge paragraph. haha peace~