Married and pregnant with another man's baby

Are you and your husband going to change the way you relate to each other because of this child.

Will raising this child help bring the two of you closer?

Will your husband knowing the genetics of the kid help him feel any closer to the kid? Will it help him be a better father to the kid?

To the pious response "he has a right to know", let me suggest that the kid has a right to be raised by a father who loves him.

("Father" like "parent" is a verb that describes a multi-year process.)

What would be in the kids best interest?

(Oh yes, one minor point. If you are going to stay with your husband and raise the kid with him, I see no benefit in informing the source of genetic material (the stud that left you for another woman) that you are pregnant.
On the other hand, if you are going to divorce your husband, get someone to pony up child support.)

 

Abort or adopt; you are not ready for this. Also, get a more stable relationship (see: one that doesn't lead you to cheat) if you are ever planning on having kids.

 

yea dude..
Now you gotta deal with the consequences..

Theres no reason to cheat.
Those are things that you discuss with him.. you don't just go fucking people.
Abortion is the pussy way out. You murder a baby for your fuck up.
You married him knowing what he does..
Like rolling said atleast put the kid for adoption.. maybe it will land in a good home.
Theres plenty of people that can't have kids that would love a nice little baby...


You fucked up now be a woman and deal with it.
Best of luck to you... just another failed marriage in the statistics.

 

Same Pattern We See Here On HF's All The Time, New

Member Joins, Makes A Thread, Then Sits Back And Laughs At

Our Responses, And Is Never Heard From Again....

In May Last Year We Got A Rash Of Them, And I Swear

All These Threads Are Written By The Same Troll...:troll:



Cheers Glen.

 

+rep for you. :daisy:

 

I love how we all pretend to care I think I'm going to start being honest. Bitch u disgusting and I bets u is ugly crawl back under ur skank bridge he's a national hero and ur a national zero and the guy u cheated with is a skuzzy scummy scunk snatch.

 

Oh NOooo you're catching on to me

 

Yes I Am......Tread Very Carefully Young Man...:toetap05:



Cheers Glen.

 

Wow,
Distance is hard but this is marriage...... it's the husbands right to know about the situation and unfair that he is kept out of the loop. If a husband is unable to fufill his "duties" as stated by law as a husband (from what i remember in the books) then your legally able for seperation/devorce.... but that is something you should have done before going behind his back.
To me this was planned out and hurtful... since you stated you met/talked and gotten close to this other man. ... then the affair. So to me it's time to come clean...

but as for the pregnancy, is all up to you..........
I know abortions are hard (i could never do, but supported my sister)
and I wish you the best with this decision... maybe your husband will forgive and help out?

 

Love It......:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

Oh glen baby that's just the dark suger

 

GlenGlen + Suger = Mr & Mrs Jones fighting a tough war on cyberbull

love it. :sunny:

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

I like my cum shaken not stired

 

Just a little support for the lady. My sister was with an army....person....a filthy, cheating lying excuse for a human. If men could come home pregnant after cheating then this thing would have 20 kids. Of course the marine would be cheating! Not only that but when he is home he deprives his lonely wife of sex and sits gaming? You got a baby in your belly. He needs the computer up his arse and you can groan in labour together. I think it is a wonderful turn of fate to get rid of him. You have my support love, my sister has psychological damage after "The Officer" finished with her. Get rid of him...games and all, sounds like an absolute dud of a man. Only good for paying bills and taking lids off jars.

 

I don't understand why anyone would post a topic asking for help and then laugh at our responses..? What pleasure do they get from hearing us tell them they're bad people? The concept of trolls on forums really eludes me.

 

Damn, y'all really snagged on that troll bait!