Just curious how common it is for married guys and gals to have a FWB on the side? I find the idea a turn on. Perhaps, it's because I am married and my wife has absolutely no libido. A few times a year is all we do and then it's usually a "let's get this over with" event. We've done couples counseling but, it just is-what-it-is. Also, she is not into an open marriage. I am considering a FWB with someone I know but, worry about the stigma and the guilt. Would love to hear from others in my position ... guy or gal. Were you able to rationalize it?