me and my boyfriend looking for company?

ok so its been on the cards for a while now, were both comfortable with eachother and sya it how it is. im bi and hes straight, ive been with girls before and he knows bout it and doesnt mind my sexuality
he first started of saying hed like to watch me with another girl, now its gone onto having a threesome, him, me and another girl. no strings attached fun really.
anyone else ever tried it??
ive had a threesome before 1 lad 2 girls, drunken thing so wasnt that good..xox

 

If you are both comfortable about it, why not. You are all consenting adults after all.

 

ye thats true, just ive heard some bad consequences afterwards so a little sceptical..xox

 

The best way to proceed is to make sure there are no strings attached to avoid any hurt feelings afterward. Make it clear to your female partner that the event is purely sexual and that you and your bf are simply looking to enhance your relationship.

It can work if you pick the right person. And, I am sure that all of us on HF will be interested in your "after post" to see how things went.

Good luck!

 

thanks for posting to my thread, ye thats all were looking for no strings attached. just some fun and something to try. like you said got to find the right person whos interested too. i will post an after post whenever we get around to doing it ..xox

 

You'll enjoy it Chrissie - trust me.
A threesome is very, very good fun.

But yes, as said above, ensure that there are no strings attached.

 

ill bare that i mind then rickyricardo im sure it would be very fun, hence why we both want to try it..hopefully will get to soon..xox

 

You can just call me Ricky - it's all good
Easier to remember - and less letters to write.

It's fun.
I've had a few.
Most with my current girlfriend, but one with a previous one.

It's something new, but it's exciting at the same time, and a very enjoyable experience.

 

ok ill just call you ricky even though i dont mind writing out the extra letters.

and nothing bad as happened afterwards, caused by the threesome? i dont think anything would happen like that if we had one, were pretty comfortable with eachother and how we are etc so shouldnt see why we wouldnt be ok after.

exactly something new and exciting, plus he brought the subject up first about watching me with any girl, i took it to the next step with the threesome ..xox

 

Funnily enough, the last time I was involved in one - which was a month or two ago now - the third person involved was actually my girlfriend's best friend, but both she and my girlfriend were fine with it - so it caused no lasting problems.

She's close to her best friend anyways, and admitted that even though she's straight, she and her friend had fiddled around in the past.

Anyways - I wouldn't expect that there would be any major repercussions as a result, as it is an idea that you've both raised and are comfortable with - so I say, go for it!

That reminds me, I think I need to get my girlfriend and her friend back for another threesome of my own, haha

 

i dont blame you, sounds like you all really had fun arty:
..xox

 

You can say that again.
Her best friend is bisexual, but leans more towards girls - so it's lucky in the sense that she sees very few guys.

The threesomes are just incredible though. I mean, I love fucking my girlfriend whenever she wants to fuck, but threesomes just give you that extra drive, if that's the right word to use.

 

ye thats pretty good then.
i bet they are, who wouldnt want a threesome with an extra girl. as you say its something different to spice it up, every now and again..xox

 

Exactly right Chrissie.
Spicens things up, it's good fun - the list goes on.

I just asked my girlfriend about the next threesome and her response was simple, 'Fuck, yes'.
She loves them, haha.

 

haha i like her response having some fun soon then. i think id prefer to have it with someone im not really close too as in a best friend. tried that before with my ex and it caused more complications in the relationship as he started to like her..xox

 

I guess a lot of guys can have that mentality, but given her best friend is practically attracted to girls more so than guys, it's not really a problem as such.

Plus my girlfriend know that I'm not going to track down her best friend and start fucking her more often, because I won't do that - I'm committed to my girlfriend

 

ye so i guess that isnt really an issue at all in your postion if shes more attracted to girls anyway.
thats a good thing to know least your one of not so many that is committed, i really dont think my boyfriend would ever cheat or do anything on his own without me, so its good we have trust..xox

 

Well, trust is essential to any relationship, that's for sure - so it's good that you have that with your boyfriend

I'm the same with my girlfriend - I wouldn't expect her to cheat either.

 

no a relationship is nothing without having trust, you got to be able to trust eachother else it would just never work. glad you and your girlfriend dont expect eachother to cheat and that you trust eachother ..xox

 

Exactly right

Yeah, it's good that we have that.
It's refreshing to know that I can trust her - as I've had unfaithful girlfriends in the past.