Memory or Fantasy

Do you have a favorite sexual encounter or a fantasy that you think about while masturbating.

Since being here on the hip and reading some of the posts I’ve found myself daydreaming a little more, bringing back a flood of wonderful memories that I will be thinking about again while masturbating.

I have a couple that I’ve been thinking about more often, one is about a former gf in the backseat of my car.

The other is with my wife after we got a babysitter and some alone time.

 

Favorite memory is having sex with my wife on a balcony in Acapulco. Favorite fantasies are of her having sex with her college friend with benefits and with men at medical conventions.

 

One of my favorites is remembering a girl from years ago who was on her back with her ankles up around my ears. She was the first squirter I ever saw and when she climaxed, her pussy got so tight she forced my dick out and squirted all over the place. She almost passed out too. Scared me for a minute. Another memory was a blowjob behind the bar I was tending at a private swingers function and the woman felt sorry that so many people were walking around but had no wallets or purses so that was her tip. She was fun. She didn't stop with me I'm pretty sure she did the kitchen staff too.

 

I am 5 years a widower after a 34 year marriage to a woman I’ll call T. It is such a strange and conflicted feeling when, while masturbating, my mind drifts to recollections of hot sex I’ve had with T in years long passed. On one hand, her spirit lives on in my mind, but ensconced within a temple of sadness on an altar constructed of all the things I should have done for her while she still lived. On the other hand, we had so many wild and crazy times in bed (and elsewhere) in each other’s arms. I do not wish to give up those delicious memories. I know I can’t possibly be the only person who’s felt this conflict.

 

That’s a very powerful and thought provoking response, thank you

 

I prefer more fantasies to memories (even if the fantasies involve women I've fucked). That said, sometimes I remember an Indian girl I banged for a few months years ago. She was pretty, long dark hair, nice dark skin and ample breasts. She'd ride me or take it from behind and when I'd cum on her it just looked so nice on her dark skin.

 

I often find myself fantasizing about things that weren’t necessarily all that memorable at the time but now looking back really turn me on. I guess tastes and perspectives change. I’ll surprise myself with random things that pop onto my head that send me over the edge

 

Do tell girl.....!!!!!

 

Memories of the first night my wife and I had sex. Memories of sharing her during MFMs. Memories of my ex wife during her hotwifing days. Too many fantasies to mention.

 

Mine I think about quite a lot is from last year. I was going crazy with my fiancé and I fingering her like crazy took my fingers out and she squirted. It was the hottest thing I have ever seen.

 

Sometimes I think of absolutely nothing but how good it feels.

 

Does watching a video of the encounter count?

 

Definitely fantasize about hot memories with my wife.

usually of her going down on me or more often memories of watching her getting fucked or eaten by another guy. I find those red-hot. Not sure why but they are

 

Lately been thinking back to how much more fun we could have sexually before all this covid crap.

In particular, threesomes with my GF, shes early 20s and still very experimental and very persuasive i'd come to realize, we'd get a hotel room and go to nearby bars and without fail she'd always find an attractive female to get involved with for the night, with bars being shut down thats put an end to that approach. Since then though she has involved three of her friends which i almost prefer, the randoms were great but you never see them again, with the friends its a lot hotter cause you get to see them again outside the bedroom and theres that secret sexual connection that makes things more interesting

 

Memory is so hard to choose from. Probably the first ever time I fucked my ex gf. I loved her for a year and she knew for 6 months. We were close friends. Been to town one night clubbing, took ecstasy. Party back in hers. She went to bed 8 in morning. I was left downstairs with couple guys left. She came down, grabbed my arm and said bed. I followed her up. She took me in spare room cos her friend was in her bed. We'd shared bed loads of times to sleep. But she just started kissing me. So we snogged a while and I was loving it. Both high on ecstasy. I thought I'd try putting my hand down to her pussy. She then pushed my hand into her knickers. I remember she was really wet. I played with her clit and had 2 fingers inside her and she started tugging on my belt. I unit my belt and buttons, she was tugging my trousers down. She rubbed my cock through my pants a while as I fingered her. Then it happened. She pulled her knickers down and said fuck me. I kicked my pants off, got on top of her. Rubbed my cock up and down her pussy and clit a bit then slid inside her. Her big moan was awesome. She said go slow. Well due to the ecstasy I fucked her flat out for about an hour and half before I cummed. She had tears running down her. She said it was the best sex she'd ever had and first time she's cummed fucking.
My fantasies can be dark. Lol. But after remembering tgat memory, I'm currently fantasising of doing it again with her in front of her husband. Apart from that, see my wife take a horse cock or something.

 

Mine involve memories with fantasy centered around them. I'm in my 50's now but I often drift to memories from my teen years. Sort of if I knew then what i know now kind of thing. I was always attracted to older women so I think about some of the hot moms from my old neighborhood. The hot mom that lived across the street from us. She had long straight black hair down to her waist. Wore tube tops and other revealing clothes. The type that wore a lot of makeup. The best of course was my best friend's mom. Busty 36D who on several occasions I saw in her bra.

 

Almost always the same memory for me. Years and years ago I had a real thing about a girl I worked it. Fell madly in love with her. She was married. She let me know that it was mutual but she wouldn’t break up her family. We then met up 5 or 5 times a year for sex. Stunning girl, beautiful body. She changed what “my type” is. The only thing is that she was a bit of a prude. Eventually we broke it off, we both changed jobs and didn’t see her again. Then randomly our paths crossed in our new jobs. My new employer asked me to bring her with me to a convention as she was a potential customer. Naturally we ended up in bed. After that we started sexting which was really difficult for her at first but she started to enjoy it and then started asking for pics and even cumshot videos. Then, under the pretence of becoming a customer, she flew me out to one of her employers factories. That night we went for dinner and then back to her room. She slipped off to the bathroom and then came out in heels, stocking, suspenders, the works. Something she would never have done before. She dropped to her knees, pulled my semi out and started sucking it for all she was worth. Later she bent over the bed as I took her from behind, something she always said she would never do. In the night she woke me up by getting me hard we then held hands as we both stroked me until I came as hard as I ever have.

for four years I’ve been making the most of that night!

 

I mostly use fantasies. Though sometimes I use memories of having sex with the women I slept with before I met my wife. Most memorable is my first time. I lasted for very long time, but could not cum. I was hard all that time and we both enjoyed it. She had many orgasms, but strangely I had none.

 

Fantasy – my wife and I are monogynous, but I do have a very specific threesome fantasy.

I am in bed with my back against the wall and my wife and I are fucking (she is facing away from me). In front of her lying on her stomach is another woman, her face very close to our sex. My wife tells the woman to take my cock out and suck it, which the woman does for a few minutes, then my wife tells the woman to put it back in her pussy which the woman does. We fuck for a while longer and my wife tells her to take my cock out and eat her pussy which the woman does. This goes on for a while and I cum deep inside my wife and for a few minutes we are motionless until my cum starts running out of her, then she tells the woman to clean us both up which she does slowly.

 

If not watching porn, it’s mostly about memories or fantasies I will experience. Very simple stuff when it comes to fantasies.

memories about making some friends orgasm from their breasts the very first time.

Fantasy I was extremely happy to finally enjoy play with someone’s small breasts from behind, I had wanted to have them that way for many weeks, when I finally had them she was surprised and pleased at how I was so hard I was before anything else happened
Getting through titfuck her small breasts meant a lot to me and hearing her moan a little while I did it

One of my friends with benefits who loved to just play with my cock for a good amount of time before we did anything else and she used to do it every time we were together. She came even when she could not have sex herself and she could not help her self from playing with me. It always got her so horny that one day I convinced her to have sex even if she was having her period. She never hesitated having sex during her period after that