Is it normal for a guy to NOT like blowjobs?? If the girl is really good at it??? Is that normal or is that guy just damn weird????
Juliettes I don't think it's weird... but not sure how common it is. I know it's never been true in my life; I appreciate it very much, and love to give it back.
Good, ok or horrible if a man turns down a beej, slowly make your way to the door and RUN! He will eventually kill you and wear your skin.
well some man are not so much into it. i mean i don't think there is a living , breathing man that will refuse a blow job...but maybe it`s just not his favorite thing in the sexual activities. Some man are capable to cum only from blow jobs, some man can never finish if you only blow to them. you know different man different styles.
a common misconception that many females have, is that they're good at giving blow jobs... the reality of it, is many women are actually clueless how to please a man orally... i've had the privilege and the curse of having mainly male friends in my life, and being present for those conversations about last nights lay.... more often than not a guy does have complaints, doesnt want to tell the girl in fear of never getting another one- and in the one case where the guy told a girl he didnt like blowjobs it was because she just couldnt take a hint when he tried to tell her how to do it.... it can be a very errotic bonding experience to have him guide you and tell you how he prefers his dick to be sucked.... if he doesnt like them....for real.... then yeah he's probably a little bit weird
QFT. Is it possible for a man not to like blowjobs? Yes. Is it probable? No. Is the real answer probably something other than that he doesn't like blowjobs? Most certainly. Also remember that what works for one cock might not work for another. So if guys have told you you give great head, and the latest one doesn't feel that way, he might just prefer to have his dick sucked differently. Communication is vital, and like MJ said, instructing a girl on how to give head can be (imo, definitely is) a great time.
I've had fantastic blow jobs and some that weren't very good. But I've never had a bad blow job. If it ends with me cumming, I'm OK with it. Frankly, my dear wife isn't that good at it -- it's more of a hand job with my cock partially in her mouth. Plus, she's not keen on swallowing -- although she does it occasionally. Once you've been been with a girl who deep throats and gulps your load, that just doesn't measure up.
Some men may say they don't like bjs as it's better that then hurting feelings. Trouble is that we men sometimes compare with our previous experiences.
Remember that the actual stimulation of the genitalia during sex is only PART of the pleasure, as most of it comes from the mind. This applies both to men & women. If the man is aroused by the idea of receiving oral sex, then he will respond positively to it. If he isn't, then it's not going to be much more than physical stimulation.
what if she has crazy-thooth? that would be scary a girls who bites when sucking is an idea that gives me nightmares...
i would have to say that it seems really weird that a guy would not like 2 get a blow job its one of the greatest joys in this world.