Can you tell them apart? Sometimes I'll feel the full body flush orgasmic release 10-15 seconds, and sometimes longer, before feeling the actual build up and ejaculation. So it feels like a multiple orgasm. Other times it's simultaneous, while sometimes I ejaculate without the orgasm at all. I can never figure out how to make it happen a certain way though. It's like a box of chocolates, never know what I'm gonna get, but it's all good. Also, I can sometimes ejaculate twice, usually the second is within a minute or two of the first. It's rare but I have done it many times. I never know when it'll hit me that way though. Any other guys figured out how to do that more often?
Oh yes - the two are different but for the majority of us and most times they occur together - the orgasm causing ejaculation. If you try a technique called edging but go a bit farther, you can have multiples. You stroke until you are about to orgasm, then stop and just tease yourself enough to take you over the edge but don't stimulate yourself as the first orgasm occurs. Then after the throbbing subsides, you do it again. I have gone as many as 6 times, having mini-orgasms with ejaculation each time (all within 30 minutes). You can go quite a few times and eventually will have dry orgasms because there is no semen left. The secret is to not touch yourself while the mini-orgasms occur. That way you don't get that over-sensitive feeling that makes you want to quit, and you will stay hard.
hmm interesting. if i batt off i always edge it almost cumm a few times, then stop. then finnally go nuts n cumm. so the trick is to edge it? edge it some more? then just start to cumm and stop touching it?
Yep - as you approach orgasm, slow way down (almost stop the stimulation) and just tease yourself over the edge to the start of an orgasm. THen stop completely and just let it flow. Once the throbbing stops, start stroking again and work yourself up to another one.
As I've gotten older I've found my orgasm and ejaculation to be easier to distinguish. There have been many times I've been having sex and had a great orgasm but no ejaculation. Which is kind of nice because I can start back up again and go for a second round...
Sometimes, when I do not have enough time to go all the way, I simulate myself and stop when I fee that I am about to come. That way I enjoy the orgasm without the ejaculation.
Well, now, orgasm-when that real sweet, intense feeling becomes the strongest, always causes ejaculation. First the feeling gets so strong that it's unbearable, then the ejaculation starts. So, I never have orgasm without ejaculation. But when I was much younger, up until I was about 11 or so, I had real strong orgasms without any ejaculation at all-the feeling got real super intense, I'd have a really strong orgasm, but no ejaculation. But since I started ejaculating around that age, I've never had an orgasm without ejaculation
I can ejaculate without an orgasm and I can orgasm without ejaculating, but the best is when they coincide
