looking at the numbers here so far, it seems like many men like bisexuality in women while with women it seems somewhat the opposite. So guys, could it be that lots of male homophobia is actually rooted in women's negative attitude to gay sex? Something to contemplate... Disclaimer: of course this is not a scientific poll and the sample is too small but nevertheless the results from both polls are intriguing.
Bi women that I'm seeing? I'm all for it.Sexually wise , I think it means they're more open , exploratative. Not sure on em having relats with other women as much.Dont mind that , just cant see what other women could give them , that way.But...? Bi males?The whole idea would make me feel very uncomfortable personally...
Yeah it's interesting. Although women are generally more nurturing and less judgemental, i have seen the typical discomfort with the idea of a man having sex with another man. It seemed like a similar distaste you would see in a man raised with that point of view... . I've known plenty of women who seem to like it though, and find it hot. Good question.
I have some good friends who are gay and lesbian. Anyone male, or female who labels themselves "bi" is, in my opinion, gay. So, as a hetero male, I would have a hard time taking a relationship with a female who considers herself "bi" very serious at all!! To me "bi" is just another word for "confused"....if you think I'm wrong... tell me why. I'm not at all closed minded about the subject!!
In the Kinsey Report, it is stated that there are very few people who are 100% gay OR 100% straight. Most people fall in the middle somewhere. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_Behavior_in_the_Human_Male I'm a bi woman. The reason I am bi and not gay is that I can be attracted to both male and female partners equally. I could love either a man or a woman. I am very happily married to a man, but I have had past relationships with women that were very emotionally, and sexually fullfilling.
I figured it was just a matter of time before someone brought up the Kinsey Report... I used to have a Gay friend who would ALWAYS bring up the "report" when he was hitting on a straight guy, LOL. Nonetheless, I would just be more secure with a partner who's only interest was strengthening our relationships bonds and intimacy. When a person goes outside the relationship to fulfill needs....it's just sabotage! If I'm not emotionally involved, however, I'm down for a little bi-girl!!!
as far as kinsey goes, fuck kinsey, he played a big role in why the APA has stated that child adult sex is okay as long as the child is not traumatised by it. people mistake sexual encounters with your students as being "reasearch" aparently.
I'm not familiar with this, however, I don't think we should disregard Kinsey entirely - due to one small portion of what he was involved in. His research is still very important. However, you are completely correct that there is never a reason for child/adult sex - NEVER.
I like the fact that around half of the girls are Bisexual because I am able to have the pleasure having sex with two of them at the same time.
The older I get, the less concerned I am with labels. I find that I am attracted to certain people, male or female, because of who they are and what they are. My basic orientation is toward men. I love men and I love to have sex with men. I wouldn't intentionally seek out another woman for sex. But I have found myself in situations where a woman was present and it seemed perfectly natural to go with it. What's the big deal? To think that automatically makes me "gay" is utterly ridiculous.