I've been single for so long now (3 Years) that it has become extremely difficult to read women. There are times where I will receive a compliment or be engaged in a meaningless friendly flirt and I will read the signals incorrectly embarassing myself and pushing the boundires of my already fragile emotional balance. I have been spending the years since returning from Iraq keeping my emotions and depression in check without the aid of pharmacuticals (since I do not like the way they make me feel). I've been doing a good job and remaining happy or not letting the things that do bug me control my life. However, when I'm faced with embarassment from the opposite sex, I take a blow to that fine line of stablility or mental breakdown. Typically I do not have an issue and I can bounce back outta my funk in a couple hours to a couple days, but other times (especially with the women who's company I really enjoy) it takes a much more serious turn. And if my fumble ruins the friendship it REALLY sets me overboard. So as futile as this question may be... Does anyone have any tips on reading women's cues? I'd rather avoid creating more akward friendships because I misread them. Thank you in advance.
tips are when approaching a woman, be cool, act casual, like you already had her, get it? if u don't approach them, how u gonna know? so keep trying, who cares! and if you get stuck in a situation, feeling awkward, just LOL! this will turn it around! she'll feel like there's something wrong with her and feel embarrased. act like u the shit! u r the american hero! right? if not, get on dating site, swim heard guys get laid everyday if they wanted to.
man no one can understand women except women and gay people...... Im confused just talking to my daughter. I never now what to do in this dating junk. I was married for a long tome, I didnt understand her either....but at least I know her....now man...crap I dont know if there liking on me or making fun of me....I figure go in for the kiss....then you know either way.
well it's just impossible to read completely a women. Not only you but most of the guys in this world are like you... even i am among those one also
How about their cues though? Any way of better gauging whether or not that cue is just friendly or if she is genuinely interested without directly asking? I know this question is a tall order, but if you could just shed some light on times where you read the cue as interest and you were correct. What was different about it then friendly flirting? I used to have 'game' for lack of a better word. However, with the job I had in the military, it was an all male unit and when we weren't training in the field we were deployed. So girls really took a backseat in my life. Now that things have stablized, I'm looking to bring someone on board with me to enjoy life. While I was in the service I didn't have much trouble getting one night stands. The dog tags, physical fitness, and buzzed hair might of had something to do with it. Even today I don't have much trouble getting laid, just now it generally involves us either both intoxicated or one or the other calling eachother for a late night bit of fun. The cues I'm looking for are the ones that are not solely sexually oriented. Tips on the ones where she wants to jump me are fine and appreciated and all, but not the most important at this time. Mainly looking for the cues from girls that are looking for something more. Thanks again.
dude i think its just the area we live in I was born in bay city, now i live just a little north of ya, I thought my teacher was into me at school so i twisted her giblet, she let it slide but was not happy bout it, worst day of my life. ( she told me she had a field trip planed for the two of us, so i thought it was a sure deal )
because you're looking for love, you ain't gonna get no girls! what are you sissy? love just happens, two people meet, relationship grows..etc what cue u looking for? there are no cues! all girls are different! till you figure out what "being coOL" means, i'm sorry, but your gonna be hopeless. good luck
Well smoka if you read the original post you'd get the dilemma I keep having. And love doesn't just necessarily 'happen'. It isn't 'magic'. There is a degree of effort associated with it. Not sure what kind of fantasy land your living in. Some people are lucky enough to just have it fall in their lap. I never said I was actively 'searching' for love, but what I was saying in the OP is that I often misread cues that are tossed out there mistaking them for something more then just friendly flirting when at other times I completely miss the cues that are for something more. On top of that, I never insinuated that it would be 'love at first site' or anything like that. Only that I'm looking for a girl that wants me them to just be fucked, understand? lol gonephisin that's priceless. I bet that was embarrassing.
