Hi! I am 30 years old and i have never had an orgasm. My gynecologist says it is psychological, and my therapists says there is actually a physical problem. I have been to several doctors and therapists, and none has actually helped me, but they all agree that i should relax and not pressure myself for an orgasm. I have tried oils, toys and a lot of things but it just at some point doesnt work anymore. My sister says i have to be better with the fantasy part and not focus so much on what i am actually doing. But i am so bad with that. As soon as i get a bit turned on, i forget to continue with the fantasy and all i think about is the orgasm that never comes. I have tried to watch movies or read some novels. That helps me a lot, except that it so hard to find movies. And that is where i am asking for help. Romantic movies where they get hot turns me on, where there is a story and like sex tension for a while, but in those movies they cut the sex part. In the porn movies i have seen so far, there is no credible story, i seems like the only thing that matters is the sex, and that doesnt turn me on at all. Can somebody recommend me movies? Or books? I also enjoy a lot erotic reading, and i have found several short stories in internet, the problem is that they are that, very short, and doesnt keep my mind in the fantasy long enough. I know all these seems lame for some people, but i have always dreamed with having a healthy sex life, i love my husband and i which i could have sex more often with him, but it is so hard and frustrating because i never orgasm. Thanks for the help.