Moving out the way/giving people leeway

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they werent trying to emasculate you, they were tryign to be nice and erspectful. its a sign of kindness or erspect to hold the door for someone else, it scourteous behavour. stop being such a damn princess, they were juts tryign to be nice to you

 

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I understand that you wish men and women just knew their damn places and stayed in the roles they were put in damn it!!

Calm down. There's no reason to lose your temper over someone holding a door for you. Boy, try to do something nice for people and it just bites you in the ass, doesn't it? Just say thank you and move on with your life. Maybe they were feminists and/or didn't believe in guys holding doors for them because they are fully capable of holding them on their own.
You wouldn't get pissed off at a Buddhist for meditating, would you?

 

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whoa chris..meditations sillenjt why does that bother you
same with holding a door
men..women.. we are all just people
if u want to hold a door get to the door 1st
otherwise say thanks smile & step on through
ppl are nice cause they want to be nice
but your aspergars makes nice gestures seem like a jab at u

& noone wants an angry asshole trying to be hard
if your soft be soft
womemn like all kinds of men..hard soft whatever
most just regret the hard angry drunks afterwards

lose the image'be yourself
& say thanks when a pretty girl offers a hand

 

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You have to admit you're pretty incompetent at basic social interactions. Which sucks. But I guarantee you these chicks didn't cut off your balls and put them in their purses.

 

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No dude. Seeing veiled insults in common everyday interactions is not "perfectly capable". If you really believe everyone is so indifferent that noone "is interested or wants to know", I guarantee you they aren't secretely plotting to spread rumors about your secret gaping vagina.

Be more interesting, not some shallow sham imitiating some tacky "tough guy" actor who problably spends his pay fucking transvestites in real life. Grow a personality. You'll meet friends eventually.

As for how "lucky I've got it." You don't know me, mon, and nobody's life is perfect. I come from a fucked up family. I have drug abuse/addiction issues. etc. etc.

Might want to work on recognizing metaphor too.

 

You have serious mental issues because of your asperger's syndrome.

You need professional help.

You aren't able to think clearly and function like most people can in social situations.

Why are you afraid of help?

 

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Yes Chris. But you do have social-mental problems. It's not normal to get angry because a woman opened the door for you, and for it to be bothering you the entire day.

People with no mental afflictions don't have that problem. You've got to come to terms with that. You have difficulties interpreting social norms. I think you could get the help you finally need, so that people will give you that time of day to get to know you, if you weren't afraid of giving it a try.

 

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Mmm... well what do you have to offer a person like me, who is already interested?

 

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I see the maternal instincts kicking in.

 

I wasn't being literal. I merely meant that people are hugely unconcerned with your masculinity. You don't have to prove it or antyhing - its taken for granted.

You've mentioned it before, and I have a memory like an elephant. Or something. Once again, I was only trying to make two points: that real life is nothing like the lives you see on TV and that basing a personality/image/whatever on a two-dimensional character you saw on TV is pretty insane.

Meh.

Yeah, there is. You seem almost criminally unhappy, mang, and it sort of depresses me. You need to figure out how to get a balance to your life.