Mutual Thrusting

Girls, do you thrust when you're having sex with your partner? I'm curious because I've never had sex and I have heard mixed, vague answers about this. If not, do you use your kegel muscles?
The other thing is, does it come naturally to you? Is it easy, and simply requires physical effor? Do you find it easy to be synchronized with your partner?

 

Yes, I thrust to the same beat as my partner!

 

Yes, I do. It makes sex more pleasurable.

 

My girl always thrusts, but one thing I don't like is that she never follows my rhythym, it's like she's just doing her own thing. It's kind of a turn-off, so watch for that.

 

hmm
maybe start off slow and sort of guide her thrusts?

thanks all for replying. I would appreciate some elaboration though--hint: my last questions

 

Guide her at first...she'll get the idea.

Mutual Thrusting = the only way to go

 

Oh course! It feels fantastic!

 

It's good, although sometimes depending on the position I find it difficult lol and make sure there's no REALLY strong mutli-beat music in the background, or it will just be awkward rofl

 

mutual and kegel

I'm multi-talented

 

you dont have too, but it makes it feel alot better, if you both get groovin at the same beat, hit hard and go deep

 

I think the muscles are properly called "pubococcygeal muscles." The Kegel exercises are named for the doctor who came up with the idea. His name was Kegel.

-Jeffrey

 

Time for some actual communication, it seems like.

Why not come up with a smooth, tactful way to suggest to her that you "both try to time ourselves and coordinate?"

"Honey, I think it would be even hotter if we were both thrusting toward each other to really deepen the thrusts..." something like that.

Sitting here telling us that what she's doing is turning you off is not going to make her any "better."

Good luck.

-Jeffrey

 

haha
thanks Jeffrey... however if I called them pubococcygeal muscles I doubt anyone would know what I was talking about. Except for you.

 

Love the mutual thrusting thing...especially when we are right on beat (as usual)..yep yep

 

i hate having to do all the work

 

Lol. Does it also help to wrap your legs around his waist?

 

i thrust back with his beat, unless he's going really hard and fast and i'm about to cum, then i usually lay there and start grabbing him, or wrap my legs around him, letting him fuck the hell out of me... i think thrusting is natural, it came naturally for me, anyway. and it seems most guys don't like fucking a log, so yeah.. get into it, it's waaaay more fun that way for both parties.

 

i thought thrusting was the point of sex...came natural to me

 

yes.. I know.. I just hear about guys thrusting lots, but never about girls thrusting. hm. -till now, that is.

 

If we DIDN'T want you to thrust back, we'd just find a way to legalize necrophelia.

Cuz really, who wants to hump a corpse?