My Boyfriend Just Went To Jail...

I don't even know what to say anymore... I got a call from him at work today went home and found some shit out.. he did some stupid shit which I don't want to talk about and now he's gone... gone for like 10 years...
I was soooooo in love with him.. I honestly still am after hearing all this..
I want him to come home, but I know he never will now..
I just needed to talk about it...

 

wow, sorry to hear that

obviously you will move on, but that has to be along the lines of someone dying.

Someday you will meet a guy who doesn't do things that will land him in prison, and you will be happy together

 

If he got ten years he’s likely to get paroled before then, are you willing to wait 6 or 7 years for him?


Hotwater

 

Hope he has a good lawyer.

All the best for him. You too green.

Can't give you good advice. Things'll get better.

 

Ohio's really taking a pounding.

 

I don't think that's why he posted that live doppler radar feed :H


Think appendage


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I just don't know what to do.. it seriously like seamonster66 said.. it feels like he died.. I'll never have him again.. honestly if it's only like 5-7-10 years I can't say I'll never have reletionships, that I wont see other people but I know in my heart no one will ever be like him...... I'll wait.. I'll hopefully have him back again.. it just hurts sooo bad.. I've never in my life had anyone treat me the way he does.. I don't even know what to do with myself right now..

 

If hes gonna be in there for longer than 5 years then move on.

 

it's so hard to... we were picking out engagement rings...

 

Well then all you can do is ......

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7NCZ4l8FCFc&feature=related


Hotwater

 

Well forst off wait to see what court has to say about it all but no matter I wish you BOTH the very best wishes and I hope no matter what it all works out for you and him.

 

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awwwwww! that's fucking hard to deal with. and when you show up for visitation, it's even harder to see your man laid low.

my older brother is living in fear right now, because even though he didn't start the fight, he damned well ended it. it was just this last weekend. he's so sad and scared. he tries so hard to be good, but he can't help it that women prefer to go home with him than with other guys. damn, man. poor baby. when i go home for christmas me, my mom and my sister (the three harpies) are going over to decorate his home and terrorize the ladies of the apartment complex that think he doesn't have anyone to love him. fuck that bullshit. hopefully, though, the drunken shithead who attacked him and got his ass beat with one punch won't press charges. even if the cowardly little fucker IS sleeping with a golf club, afraid my bro's gonna kick his ass.

WTF?!! i don't understand sometimes.

 

That must be very confusing Green Goddess

No guy can expect a girl to wait that long for them. You will be a different person then in ten years too. He shouldn't have done whatever he did and risk losing you for that amount of time.

I hope you can see through this soon and enjoy living! Lifes too short for 'bottle necks'

 

i wouldn't wait. yes, i'd feel bad for a while, my god, i did for long enough (years) based on my ex. but seeing your love in prison orange behind a glass after waiting hours and having your personal belongings checked before a large public audience changes quite a lot. you begin to think "what a fucking idiot." and even if you did wait, you'd be in a relationship with someone you considered an idiot. even if they clean up, get right and and fix their shit, there's that little bug in your brain that says "i'm with an idiot."

 

Green Goddess, I'm sorry to hear this, it must be really hard for you. Just know that people make mistakes and is no reason to immediately forget about him. You'll heart will tell you what to do, just keep in mind 10 years is a long time and people change a lot in that time, you'll be a different person and so will he, is different growing together, than changing separately, but that's no reason to give up on it. I'm sure you'll know what's best. :hug:

 

{{{Hugs}}} mama, sorry to hear about your boyfriend. I know you love him, but you know, and please don't get upset with me for saying this, but if he's doing questionable things (and granted, I don't know what he actually did or the severity, which also affects things) that are going to land him in jail, honey, you and your son are better off without him. You don't need that kind of thing going on right now!

Hang in there sweetheart.

 

What did he do?

 

he wrote bad checks from some elses account... I just learned that he was taking oxy's for about a month.. he had a bad addiction years ago before we met.. atleast he told me the truth now.. but what sucks is that he could've gotten help and I would've been there for him through it all and this would never had happened.. I'm going to see him today.. I guess he can only get what time out here in ohio for a probabtion violation so he has to serve the rest of his time which is 6 months then he will be transfered to chicago and we'll se what happens then.. I'm going to wait it out and see.. I can't lose him.. he is the only one that has ever made me this happy (obviously before this) and the only one who I have ever been this in love with or who makes me feel this comfortable.. I know in my heart that I'll never find another love like this.. thank you so much for all your comments.. it means alot that you all care about me..
big hugs and kisses!!
Hollie*

 

BAD CHECKS FROM YOUR FATHERS ACCOUNT! NOT JUST SOMEONES ACCOUNT! DOES THAT CHANGE ANYONES OPINION?
IF YOU WANNA TALK TO PEOPLE AND ASK THIER ADVICE TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH!!~!!!!!
p.s. hippychickmommy "her" son is with me so he'll be fine no matter what she does..... .