My erectile dysfunctions are all in my head!

I have had sex about 25 times in my life and about one month ago for the first time i have a problem with keeping my hard on. I think it I was a little bit nervous and i might have been a little bit too stoned but either way it happend. The next 5 or 6 times after that it was ok but then it just happend to me again a couple nights ago.

The problem is that its all mental. I have no problem getting a boner, i have no problem keeping it up. Sometimes during sex it just pops into my head that night that i could not keep a boner and as soon as i think about it; I get nervous and lose my boner.

I know that erections start with your brain and if your mind starts thinking about not getting a boner, your going to lose your boner. I know that the more i think about trying to get a boner, the less likely it will be to happen.

So i really need to fully relax and keep my mind focused on sex. I know that seems easy but now i know that i might not be able to keep my dick up, I start to think about it and freak myself out.

I really need to learn how to keep that shit out my head, you guys have no idea how much this sucks.

 

Melty Man

For the men: Do not even speak his name or he will rise from the shadow dimension to do his work on your terrified pants.

He is the arch-enemy of trouser confidence, Professor Moriarty in groin form, Darth Vader without the helmet.

He kills a man's erection.

First used in the BBC series "Coupling" in the episode, "The Melty Man Cometh."
Patrick: I don't need any more theories about the melty m--

Jeff: Or he will come.

Steve: And you won't

Patrick: For god's sake, there's no such thing as the melty man!

Jeff and Steve: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E923DyOmI10