My girlfriend is now fat!

2 years 40 pounds... need I say more.

WTF girls why do you all get fat?
I don't get it can you not rida a bike or get off of your bon bon ass and walk?

no person should be fat.

you eat to much and your lazy and I hate when you rip on me for not having enough money!

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ta da!

 

Is this a joke?

 

Damn that's wrong

 

You're not married.

If you feel that way about it just leave her.

 

Must be... Better be!

 

oh my god that's awful. I got fat on somone and I couldn't imagine them thinking that about me. That's horrible there's no way you can truly love someone you're saying those things about her. Maybe make her healthy food or go to healthier resturaunts when you eat out?

 

Damn straight! Do her a favor, stop wasting her time so she can go find a real man!

 

Let's hear you say that in...10 years.

In the words of the great Pavel...Die.

 

Well, from the looks of things - She has money to feed herself all of this food.

You might as well leave..

She's probably already replaced you with someone else.

She'd be better off without you.

 

women metabolize alot slower then men. there is probably something in her diet, something almost habitual or at least daily, that her body feeds off of and then stores the rest of her food as fat. its biologically important for women to store fat to deal with pregnency and breast feeding. so its built into them to metabolize slower and to store fat more easily. my guess is she is either drinking soda everyday, or some other product with high furctose corn syrup, or using synthetic sweeteners, and once her body starts feeding off of this, she is storing all of the natural sugars as fat. no amount of bike riding or dieting is going to end this cycle. she needs to identify what it is in her diet, and quit it, if she wants to slim down.
judging from the reactions hear. i would try gentle, even subliminal, encouragement as apposed to your normal approach. another factor may be that you are watching too much kiddie porn, and you are not comparing her to real, mature, women. im the same age as you and i still find young skinny girls attractive, but i also find women in thier late 30's and 40's attractive too, and i flirt with them constantly.

 

Women are supposed to look like....women.

 

don't be such a pig. How much weight did you gain???

 

i wasnt tryin to be a pig. sorry. i wish i could gain 40 lbs though . . .
seriously though, women are most attractive at age 38, IF they stay in shape.
15-40 would make for a good 25 years of some deep cock action if a woman stays in shape. if she lets herself go too far, its gonna cut into that time quick. i dont have problems with the physical side of obesity, its the psycological side that is a big turn off. this cat is seein his woman go from prolly 115 to 155 in 2 years, his natural thinkin tells him in 2 more years she is gonna be 200lbs. after a while she's not gonna want to hike or show up at the beach anymore, its gonna severely affect thier happiness down the line. he cares about her and in his archaic way is showing concern and looking for solutions.

 

That is just mean to say that about someone ( im just guessing) that you love. Did you ever stop to think as to why she eats so much , doesn't exercise, and is lazy????? probly not!!! Ever think that food is her vice/her escape to get away from something. She could be depressed and food is her comfort.
Now with her not excersising ever stop and wonder why she isn't excersising. She probly isn't motivated to go for a short walk or to the gym or whatever. Couples effect eachother in both negative and positive ways. Example: You love to work out every day for a few hours well if you keep doing so your mate will start loving to work out also. Thats the positive. The negative is that you stop working out because your spouse doesn't join in so you get lazy just like your spouse.

If you want your spouse to start exercising and losing weight you should sit her down and talk to her( don't be rude and cruel about it cuz us women are very VERY sensitive about our weight) say something like honey I've noticed that over the years you haven't been very active and it looks like you have gained a little weight.
Then ask her if there is anything wrong is she depressed or trying to escape from anything. Heres the important part Ask her if you both signed up at a health club/ gym and went regularly together if that would motivate her. Try to be careful with the words you choose and let her know that she is not going to be doing this alone that you are there for her. As I said before be sensitive and dont be harsh she probly has noticed that she gained weight and she is most likely upset about it.

 

Wow, you are a complete asshole and you don't deserve a girlfriend at all. I am going to quote Pavel too and say "Die!".

 

150lbs still ain't fat (IMHO). It's round. I'm 5'2" and 150 - a fair chunk of that is a wide bone structure along with muscley goodness under the roundness (since muscle weighs more than fat)

 

umm this is just stupid...


but my two cents are here:

If a girl goes on BC, or Birth control, it can sometimes slooooowwww their motabilism causing alot of water retain and bloat.... the depo shot does this too...

although some girls loose weight on BC....

it all depends... and if you love her you shouldent care about her weight... you should love her for her.... Ass...

 

that IS a lot of weight to gain in 2 years,,,, if you really do love her, try and help her, and express your feelings about the whole situation (be gentle) maybe you could say that you're worried about her health... offer to exercise with her, maybe you guys could both start eating healthier together. its a lot easier to do if you arent alone...

 

She could have thyroid problems. I know I do, and in about 4 years managed to gain 30 pounds. Pretty traumatic for a teenager who eats like a bird and exercises daily. =P

 

lol! I didn't mean u silly!