My girlfriend won't do oral

So, I have this awesome girlfriend who I love very much. The problem she won't do oral. This is agonizing for me as I love oral sex. I love to give oral sex, I love to recieve oral sex. It makes me feel like she isn't into me even though she constantly says she is. I just don't know what to do. It has seriously pushour relationship to a point of no return.

Are there any ladies here who used to not do it and now do? Better yet, love to do it? If so what changed?

Are there any men here who have been in the same boat were able to turn it around with their woman?

If so, please help!! I do love her, but I'm not willing to have a life of sexual frustration, I love sex, all kinds of sex far too much to go without.

 

Remember turnabout is fair play. Although it won't get your knob polished. I'd say move on.

 

It's your call dude. You already know she doesn't make you happy, why continue to waste time on someone that cannot or will not fulfill your needs?

 

just because she doesn't want your piss-stick in her mouth doesn't mean she isn't into you. I don't think there really is any way of using Pavlovian conditioning on someone so that they love the taste of your porridge cannon and even if this were possible, it'd be kinda fucked up, as would guilt tripping her into it. either break it off and go back to shaking milky coconuts from the blue-veined love tree with madam palm and her five lovely daughters, or just find a way to get past it for yourself.

(i didn't really have anything valid to say, but i haven't used a penis euphamism in so long, feels good man.)

 

All I can say is, make sure it's really clean, maybe suggest doing oral in the shower, I love that, the water makes it nice and slippery.

If it smells even a little bit, it's a turn off, so scrub that bad boy really well.

I love giving oral, but if you read my other posts, I don't have sex, I'm still a virgin, so be happy that your at least getting sex, because my boyfriend doesn't, he just gets oral.

I'd say either she's self conshous about it, or your not clean enough. I find that pubic hair can smell like BO sometimes, you wouldn't be able to smell it because it's faint, but she could.

Ask her why she doesn't like it.

 

If I were just getting oral , I'd be more than grateful to recieve it than to have intercourse. Oral sex would be more stimualting & more eroctic than intercourse. I think hummingbirds boyfriend is doing very well getting oral at the moment. If he'd been with a girl who didn't even want to perform any sex acts or foreplay before marriage, he may have left just after meeting her if he'd been given boundaries beforehand?

 

Did she do oral with other guys she was with? Are you cut or uncut? If you are uncut, make sure to follow little hummingbird's advice. Heck, even if you are cut, it can't hurt.

I guess the best thing to do is just have a heart to heart talk about why she doesn't like it. She may also have had some bad some bad experiences in the past, like a guy cumming in her mouth without permission, or possibly someone close to her forcing her to do something she didn't want to do.

 

Really? Hmmm, well that's interesting, I wonder how many other men feel that way?
I guess you always want what you can't have, or what you don't get.

 

I'm uncut & always wondered what it would look like cut ? May have to google it!
Sometimes I apply lube to my knob & run my fingers all over it to see how it may feel if it was a tongue doing it instead. Sure feels awesome & makes me hornier as well.

 

Do you know how much your boyfriend rates oral sex compared to intercourse - with others he been with?
Is oral a lot more arousing for him to recieve than intercourse - if he's mentioned it before?
I think I would find if I were to recieve ora, it l would be more arousing than vaginal sex?

 

I've seen a cut one. They are nice too, but the head is a bit more rough looking because it's not protected with the foreskin. It almost looks a bit dried out!
It's still soft though. Those guys have to use lube though when they beat off because the skin doesn't move much, if at all.

 

I've never ask him that actually. I will ask him when I talk to him again.
I just know that he really wants me to have vaginal sex.

 

funny how you only see girls and uncircumcised guys make this outrageous claim.

yeah, this is true, and uncircumcised guys don't have to go to the bathroom because their foreskin fills up like a water balloon and eventually reabsorbs into the body.

 

Don't give into his request just because he wants you to.
It's your body & only you can make that decision. Don't allow him to pressure you into anything that will / may cause your relationship to suffer. If you love him - do things that you would like to do as well & not just to shut him up by him asking all the time for intercourse. Fair enough?
If he's not content waiting for you to do things when 'you' want to or when you are ready to, then he's not commited to you 100%?
Depends how much he really loves you?

 

I won't give in, no worries. Thanks NZ.

 

If he decides the relationship is not going to allow intercourse before you want to - are you willing to tell him that it's all over ?
If it's only based on sex (?)- is that all he see's it as, or is there a very close bond between you both that intercourse is not just to keep you both together but love is as well?

 

I may tell him to forget it, but I might decide I want to do it, we are close, but it's only been 6 months, it's still new.

It's hard to find a nice guy and it's also scary telling them I'm a virgin, there eyes light up like they want to jump me and then they will do or say anything to get in my pants. It's really is scary for me.

 

I have never had to use lube and I am cut.

 

Shit Hummingbird and NZmale you 2 need to take your chats elsewhere I mean seriuosly go use yahoo/msn/skype etc seems you guys are in every other thread hitting on each other dragging it off topic.

As the saying goes get a room!!!


Now back to OP,

Sorry the misses won't give ya head, you need to have a think and ask yourself how important oral is to you.....

if it is something that you can't live without tell her then. But if you can go with out and you are happy in love, best of luck.

 

Well I guess I'm wrong then aren't I. Care to explain then?