my girlfriends virginity...

Well I have been seeing my girlfriend for about three months now, and we both are crazy about each other. I couldn't be happier about how things are going, except for one thing. She wants to have sex, but she said there is a "purpose to wait", and that "I'll know when it's time". I mean thats good news I guess, but I was just wondering if anybody else has had any similar experiences with your partner's virginity...

 

I think you should just respect her wishes if you really care about her. If it is going as good as you say it is, you will be together for a while and have plenty of time to "do it like they do on the discovery channel". A girl's first time has to be special and memorable, and with someone they are sure deserves it. She just needs time. Bear with her. It will be worth the wait for both of you. I am in a similar situation with my fiance. She is a virgin and I told her I will be ready when she is ready, and it is entirely up to her when her first time will be. Mind you, sex has never been very important to me. I just enjoy her companionship. Given the choice, I would rather smoke a blunt with her than "fuck" her, but I would love nothing more than to "make love" with her(while stoned, of course).

 

haha... yeah for sure. oddly enough, she told me that night i posted this that she was ready and she wanted it to be special, of course. i don't want to "fuck" either, i think thats kind of emotionless. i think it will be a great experience for both of us.

 

good luck

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