my problem is..

i don't know if i'm too picky.. or if i pick the person apart too much... little things seem to completely draw me off a person. really little things sometimes. sometimes a face they've made, something they said, something they did while i was with them..

i feel like maybe i'm too picky for my own good..
opinions?

 

yeah, sounds like that could be your problem.

nobody's going to be perfect; you just have to settle for someone who is pretty close to what you want, because that's as good as it can possibly get.

 

i feel that.. but i don't ever want to settle.. ya know? i want.. something awesome.. not, something thats going to drive me nuts and ruin the relationship... ya know?

 

I don't think you're too picky. You just havent met the person yet who is everything your looking for and you don't want to throw away that opportunity by settleing with someone who isn't the one.

 

..that's how i feel.. for the most part i guess.

 

I'm ready to just settle ...sometimes you have to realise that the little things dont matter so much....kinda like how a good car is still a good car even if the paint is fading.

 

make sure that the knit-picking isn't a habitual thing when you get in a relationship, cuz i don't think that if you do find the right person for you that it'll all go away. I think it comes down to sensibility in both leaving the knitpicking alone and also being open with appearances cuz 'the right person for you' very well may not be someone that is initially good looking. yeah

 

Yeah, you sound pretty stuck up.

 

That's such a woman thing to say.

 

Is your mom single?

 

lmao totally is.

 

No, she settled for my dad. Or my dad settled for her.

They met in a bar then I came out. They still live together. And they got married when I was 17, but it was for tax shit. 20 of my 22 years they've been together.

I'm pretty sure my mom was dating this black dude she used to work with though. Good for her, my dads a dick.

So what's your point Doktor Freud?

 

no point ..I was just wondering if she was available

 

the problem is all us good guys are taken.:rofl:

 

i'm really not though. as far as friends go, i'm a pretty open and accepting person. and even in a relationship, i'm not really too picky on looks.. personality goes far more for me than looks do..

i'm not exactly a "10" to be stuck up anyway lol

 

more like 12

 

ty

 

is your mom single? :tongue:

 

lol naw.

 

tell me about it.... :toetap05: