narced on by my sister

my cousin and i were in my room doing lines and one of my older sisters walked in. i swore to her that ive only done it a few times (the truth) and that i wouldnt ever do it again (the lie). she said it was cool and that she wouldnt tell my parents. 3 nights later my mom gets off the phone with her and starts flipping out saying that im going to rehab and she knew shit like this was going on. turns out my sister narced on me and my cousin. i later talked to my sister about it and she said that she did it for my own good. yea whatever. my mom grounded me for 6 weeks and i have to pull "good grades" this marking period which ends in 3 days, or else im grounded for another 6. now my cousin has to go to rehab and im stuck with parents who dont trust me and shit load of nothing to do.

 

that sucks your sister did that, but I'm an older sister myself and I'd probably do the same if I walked in and saw my 15 year old sister doing coke, she cares about you and she probably wants to keep you as young and innocent for as long as possible. my sister is goin to be 15 in july, me and my brother(16) both smoke he started when he was 13 Tha's cool with me, but she wont smoke with me till I think she's ready, she's my sister I want her to stay little, your sister probably feels the same way too. she can only imagine what other drugs you're doing if you're snorting coke at 15, she's only worried about you, try not to be too mad at her, If she didn't love you and didn't care she wouldn't try to help.
not saying you need help, but I'm trying to tell you what probably going on in her head.
coke's cool, it's a fun drug I do it from time to time, but it's a pretty hard drug for someone so young, do you like shrooms or smoke weed? they are alot more safe. more natural, you don't know what they are cutting coke with sometimes, there are times it's cut with rat poision, you have to be careful.
I'm not trying to lecture you, just trying to help.

 

Tell her I think she's a ****.

 

yeah coke realy isnt a good thing to get into that young but i realy shouldnt talk, i ended up becoming additced to speed at 13 thats realy fucked up stay away from that shit

 

why could the sister take action herself, talk to younger one, instead of telling parents who flip and ruin part of the kids most precious years?

how fucking selfish is that to want to keep your younger sibling 'young' or 'little'. that doenst invovle getting them invovled with rehab. some discussion would have prolly worked it all out, maybe made some deals or something, but 3 days later tell parents? thats BS in my books.

its obviosuly not teh right thing for a 15 yr old to be doing but why follwo it up so conservatively? im sorry your a sicko if you would sooner send your ounger sibling to rehab for some instances of coke than talk about it and solve the problem intimately and secretly. now the parents are never gonna trust their kid, all because some psycho older sister wants to 'preserve'their younger sibling, what as a cabinet ornament?

fuck you

 

I can understand how in a normal situation an older sister would want to keep their younger sister "pure" or whatever. but this is not a normal situation. my older sister was once addicted to meth so she knows what goes down, and no one ever told our parents when they caught her doing it. we always just let it go, but like always they eventually found out. I mean me and her smoke together all the time so its not like shes no angel herself. But the thing that really pissed me off is that she told me, no i wont tell mom its cool. so i thought i was in the clear, and then when you hear your mom coming stomping down the hallway flipping out, its a rude awakening.

 

damn....sorry I myself don't do drugs anymore, but I would be pissed if my brother did something like that...

 

try and talk with her and see why she did it if i found out my sister was doing that shit i would freak

 

pfff coke aint shit as long as you dont abuse it (you weren't as far as i can tell). Your parents are nazi's like mine, sorry

oh and btw I'd replace your sisters bud with oregano and smoke it all.. but thats just me..

 

your meant to give them a chance though, not send em off to rehab

 

if the cousins going to rehab and she's not its prolly because its not the first time the cousin has been caught.
bad children, coke will kill you, don't do coke and you won't get in trouble. coke destroys lives and you're too young to see it, you think you know the world. try burying a few friends in a couple years and come back and look at yourselves now and say you knew the world then. and with coke, it won't take more than a few years for your friends and aquantances to start popping up stones in the cemetary. i've seen it too many times

 

yea this is like the 4th time that ive done it. and trust me i know what it can do. ive buried family members and friends that died from drug over doses, so please dont tell me that i dont know the world and that im to young to see it. and i dont mean to sound like a bitch, but its the truth.

and thanks stonerbill for understanding and not giving me the lecture that ive already heard too many times.

 

If you have buried family members from drug overdoses and you havent learned anything from that.. You sister was a meth addict and you didnt learn... Drug abuse runs in your family (as it does mine)... Learn from it... Obvoiusly your sister did..Im sorry to come off sounding like a bitch... its not my interntion.. It sucks that your grounded... But when you grow up and have kids of you own.. Youll feel very different 15 is so so young... Looking back on the things i did at your age.. I hate myself.. I wish is hadnt acted like that.. Enjoy your childhood sweetie

 

I totally agree w/ that.. but i ment as in just saying oh dont do it again and looking the other way which is something that happens everyday. Parents dont want 2 see whats going on in their childs life so they choose not to and it ruins a person for the rest of there life. but if a kid needs help the parent should get the child treatment. but not in every case, i mean if ur not addicted theres no point. unless its a habitual thing getting caught w/ drugs... i mean its one thing 2 be cool w/ ur kid drinking or smokin some pot.. but these are drugs are on a diffrent level.. coke, meth, opiates, man these drugs are not things young teens need 2 get involved in. but alot of its the govts. fault.. because now days its alot easier 2 get some rock or coke or painkillers than it is 2 get acid or shrooms. so kids are forced 2 experiment w/ drugs that will just plain fuck u up.

 

i believe in experimenting with many different things. ive done many drugs and i always get the backround info and what it can do to you and what to expect with it. so in my own mind i am learning, a different type of learning then what you are saying but learning nonetheless. and i wont become addicted to any sort of drug. ive seen what it does to people and i would not let that to happen to me. but that does not mean that i cant experment, which is exactly what im doing. i know my limitation and i may sound naive to you since im "so young" but i trust my own judgement.

 

Okay... I have said the same things to myself all the time and yes it can be true if you have such a strong will power to stop your self when things get bad but not many people do. I have thought exactly like you do and I have been addicted to opiates a couple times and have messed up my life(mostly when I went through depression). I respect your way of thinking because some people can do it and I have for just about all of the time I have done drugs cept when I got into oxycontin, but I got addicted to it because I LOVE it soo much and that is where alot of addiction becomes, you think that "oh i will stop in a little bit ill just have my fun for a little bit" but then you get deeper and deeper and it is EXTREAMLY hard to stop. I have been addicted to alot of other drugs but have got my self out of those faster because I dont get the love as I do with opiates. Im sure alot of other people are gonna comment on your post too because it always happens around here. Have fun and stay alive

 

If I walked in my 15 year old sister blowing lines, first, I'd slap the drip out of her mouth. What the fuck? What is up with kids. MARY JANE... NOT COCAINE. Especially since your neurochemistry is in some critical stages in mental development. Cocaine screws with your neurochemistry. Bad thing to be doing at such a young age, and for many, a bad thing to do at any age.

 

thats is exactly true. some people can do drugs and never have a problem or like fly eyes and myself you find a drug that you love and that is where u have problems. yea i could do coke alot in a months time and never have a problem. but man i blow oxy a couple days in a row im back in the same fuckin hole that ive been in before. and anybody whose experienced opiate addiction whether it be oxy, smack, or just poppin vicodin knows that its ugly and u only get father and father in. just never no what drug gonna be ur problem, shit it could be anything 2 not jsut drugs it could be gambling, or drinking, u jsut never know. and beyond what you think.. the 15 year old brain is not fully developed and has a harder time w/ these things. you think you understand and im sure u do understand. but some things are best taken slow... but maybe ur someone who can just experiment w/ drugs and not ever have a problem. and i hope u are.. best of luck

 

every 15 year old thinks their invincible... You are not... In 10 years ... You will know many people who are dead or in jail... You may be one of them... You might not be... Go slow you got all the time in the world... Dont say you wont become addicted... Obvously it runs in your family... you are more likely to become addiced than most... You are not invincible.. No one says im gonna become addicted to coke, crack, heroin... Everone says I wont become addicted.. Realise you are not invincible