Ok so here is the deal, i have been dating this awesome chick for the last 2 months, im 17 and she is 16. Well i kinda have a problem..... I really really want 2 have sex. We are both virgins and that makes this problem so much more complicated, because i dont want our first time 2 be all hagered. I just dont know how to tell her that i am ready to have sex, im afraid she doesnt want 2 or sumthing. ahhh fuck, this is so confusing. Plz guys i need some help!!!!
dont worry if it'll be all "hagered", oh plz define hagered. anyway, just go for it, if she's not ready, she'll let u know. if u start going too far, she'll tell you
Just talk to her man, if shes not ready, she'll proly say so. it just means you'll have towait a little longer is all, shes prolly not going to dump you because you think your ready, only if you start laying it on thick and pressuring her into it, then she'll dump you
Yeah true... if you don't want it to be all awkward, it wont. Follow your true instincts, you know, try and work on a routine of sorts. I haven't had a lot of sex, but the two girls I've slept with didn't even believe I was a virgin (well, the first) and were completely satisfied. Just think about what you are going to do and work it over in your mind... but most of all, make sure that your girl is ready! Don't push it, it will come with time. I'm not trying to give you ideas to take advantage, but alcohol does bring out the love in girl... haha. Oh and with the location... I know that it can be hard to find a place, but if you do it in a car (like the back of a pickup, preferably, or a car with plenty of trunk space) make sure its in a good spot instead of like a parking lot or some junk. Good luck buddy, I know that I regret my first time, but I hope that you don't!
You want it to be special and yet you really really want to have sex with her? Are you sure you're not thinking with just your swaying down-unders? Re-read your post, and tell me seriously that you actually care about where you have sex.
^^i dont care if we have sex in the fucking park! I just dont want her 2 look back on it and be like wtf?!?!
Start slow with a finger,for as long (days) as it takes for her to get used to it and relaxed, then try your tongue for a few weeks. Don't be pressing her for return favors, be patient, be a 'gentleman,' and soon you'll feel a hand on your leg/pants/crotch. By that time she's relaxed, trusts you, and willingly will talk all about it. Then make your 'special' date. "Everything worth while is worth waiting for!", said the man with the green apple.
