Need Help Family!!

Discussion in 'Rainbow Family' started by Dylanchick0113, Aug 5, 2006.

  1. Dylanchick0113

    Dylanchick0113 Member

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    Ok , I went to the gathering and my husband that was supposed to pick me up never did, He left me stranded in colorado and when i got back to tulsa last night i found out that he got a protective order against me saying that i cant come near my kids til the 17th when i go to court over it. He tried to say that he didnt know where i was for a month and all this other shit. anyone have any legal advice, luvin you
     
  2. GHOSTCRAB

    GHOSTCRAB Banned

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    Sunshine #(352) 418-2240
     
  3. Bumble

    Bumble Senior Member

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    omg! what a douche! first off chevy, one of your kids is not his biological child,right? so infact, he could get charged with kidnapping. I'm going to pm you my cell number because I don't know if you still have it, but I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to. After your court date you sould go as far away from Tulsa as you can. Maybe PA? We love you up here! In PA it is VERY hard for the father to gain 100% costedity(sp?) of their children, unless they can prove that the mother is using drugs or is beating the children. I have no clue if this is the same in OK, but I sure as hell hope so. He can not hold your one daughter away from you! That is kidnapping! I would report him to the police asap! I wish you the bestest of luck hun! You will get your children back! Remember you can call me any time!

    Peace + Love
     
  4. shaina

    shaina No War Know Peace

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    i'm sorry. i'm sending you good energy and hoping everything will turn out ok.
     
  5. gate68

    gate68 Senior Member

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    You mean you left your kids for a month so you could go to a gathering!How rainbow of you.
     
  6. Bumble

    Bumble Senior Member

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    stop assuming! her husband kicked her out and she needed somewhere to go. there's more to it, but i don't want to say anything because it's none of our business. we were going to pick her up, but the truck we were in broke down too many times.
     
  7. Dylanchick0113

    Dylanchick0113 Member

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    i was only going for a week, he was supposed to pick me up . but he left me stranded and then it took me longer to get home,, I didnt leave my kids for a month ,,, so go the fuck on ,
     
  8. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Its ok, you dont need to explaine..we who are tuned in get where your coming from.
     
  9. sweetbabyjames

    sweetbabyjames Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Your husband sounds like a real douche bag jerk. I suggest you get a lawyer if you haven't already. People who use the kids as weapons...well I have zero respect for them. There are some of us who care!
     
  10. Dylanchick0113

    Dylanchick0113 Member

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    Thanks you guys,, knowing theres peopel that care makes me feel better,,,luv'n u
     
  11. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    How could someone do such a thing??
    Well, nevermind, he obviously has. Don't worry too much. You'll get your babies back. No court could give custody to someone who acts so irrationally, especially where children are involved...
     
  12. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    I agree 100% ...

    He is certainly in the wrong here, you can fight this and win ...

    There's alot of postives energy going out to you. :)
     
  13. nutznfl

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    not to be negative but to be prepared,,, My daughter was abbused by her mother, (Long StoryShort) I have a folder about 3 inches thick, A discovery report, showing pictures of a swole up little face with bruises all over, makes me sick to think about it but the state of florida returned my little girl to the mother and made her the primary residentual parrent without my notice or opertunity to be heard. so far its been a long and riggorus battle but its the only way i can protect her.

    The courts are fucked up so be prepared...
     
  14. xander

    xander Member

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    so dylan sis. whats tha world. what did thay sey in court.


    Love.
     
  15. Crystaleyez

    Crystaleyez Member

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    Aw honey I'm soooo sorry. *hugs* I can't imagine what you must be gowing through. Prayers your way sis.
     
  16. OleFlowerMan

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    Smile, breathe and go slowly. Powerful lesson is being presented to you with this one precious Dylanchick. You need to stay as grounded as you can.. Peace&Love Paul
     
  17. peaceloveandsunshine

    peaceloveandsunshine Member

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    i definitely think the husband is in the wrong ........ sending you rays of sunshine!
     
  18. dances in pajamas

    dances in pajamas strange little girl

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    They're your children... and if one is not his, he has no right to them. I also say call the police. If he left you stranded then it's his fault that you aren't with your children. I think that's bullshit. Do you have any idea why he would do that? But it's none of my business, so nevermind. Hope everything is okay...
     
  19. Dylanchick0113

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    Don't go to court until the 24th but i'll let ya guys know what happens,, I called Legal aide today to see if i could get a lawyer, and they told me that my husband already called them and has a lawyer through them so it would be a conflict of interest for them to help me so I cant get a lawyer now,, still hoping taht the court drops the order of protection on thursday so i can see my babies,, this is gonna be really rough if my husband doesnt compromise about the kids,
     
  20. Starsrainbow

    Starsrainbow ~om~

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    Dylanchick

    Keep your chin up and the 'luvin' in your heart
    You'll be okay :)

    (((((Rainbow Hug)))))
     
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