Need help with a girl

try to make eye contact with her...and then smile. I don't know dude...be brave I know you are

 

it isn't weird.
it would throw somebody off, but they'll sit somewhere else - you're a big kid, you can do what you want.
the girl would notice you moved, and if you started a conversation with her at the same time she would get an idea that you are interested in her.

make a remark about the teacher
say something about how you wish you were somewhere else
ask her if she's good at math
do something to get her to notice you in a good light.

 

fuckk i think im just afraid of rejection.
I've been rejectd once in my life, kind of

 

i've been half assed rejected several times, because i've made half-assed efforts. i'd much rather have it cut and dry.

untuck your penis and go for it man. rejection really isn't that bad, and being rejected is WAY better than sitting back and letting opportunity get away from you and later wishing you would have done ANYTHING to get ANY response.

just talk to her, the worst she could do is ignore you - and if she does that she isn't much of a person to be swooning over anyways.

think of it this way - it doesn't have anything to do with YOU. you are doing HER a favor by approaching her, breaking the ice and extending a connection with her. she isn't rejecting YOU, she will reject your approach, because really all she knows of you at that point is your approach.

if she knocks it down, find a different angle and a different girl. or just be comfortable knowing you tried, she rejected it and she's the one at a loss.

but you know that she won't reject you, because you're the man and we all know it.

 

I guess your right. Like that quote "you miss 100% of the shots you dont take" or something like that. thanks man

 

exactly.

it's easy for me to give this advice, because i know that i need to take it too. i've been given it and it is truth.

 

Best of luck manjust be yourself..

 

Thanks guys. I have the class tomorwo morning, ill let you all know how it goes
Im not gonna be a pussy
Im not gonna be a pussy
Im not gonna be a pussy

 

Stick it in her pooper!

 

In your mind choreograph everything you’re going to say in advance, then guess her response, and offer a response; that way you always know how the conversation will go before it happens.


Hotwater

 

I've been trying to think of something to say. Ill probbly just be like this class sucks huh? Then once she says yes ( i know she will because its so fucken boring) il lask her how shes doing in it and go from there

 

If you have intresting stuff to say later, I actually think that 'so how about those quadratic formulas' is a pretty good opener.

Women are like monsters that feast on nervousness. Bitches'll eat you alive! :biggrin:

Don't get me wrong, adoration is all well and good, but if you don't take the chance and try get to know her, she'll be one of about a thousand some odd pretty girls that'll fade in and out of your life.

She could be a lesbian or insane or have a boyfriend. But she could be an insane lesbian with a boyfriend who has a friend who'd be great for you too.

Give it a shot is the point I guess.

 

I always get the fucking shaft when it comes to girls, they always have a fucking boyfriend already. I really hope this time is different.
I am going to give it a shot tomorwo
i remember reading the alchemist and a quote said something like "the only thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve is the fear of failure"

 

Pretty girls always almost always have boyfriends. Don't let that dissuade you or you'll only date fat girls.

Which isn't bad either mind you. Got me through high school.

 

Isn't that a homo thing?

 

This is a horrible, creepy thing to say to a woman you barely know unless you're an amazing stud.

Instead, try: Would you like to get coffee sometime?

 

yes every girl i go after ends up having a huge shaft. ughh. It's getting annoying.
no shaft means like... unfair treatment

 

if she likes math, sure. if not, try "oh how bout those math problems, lame huh?"

unfortunately girls can't recognize confidence if it slaps them in the face, so they just end up with the extremely insecure guys who act a fool instead.

 

well recently i've used the comedy approach, make out like you're asking them something really serious then when they are focused and thinking 'what's he gonna say' come out with something ridiculous and quite funny.

i kept stopping bar maids in a really funny manner acting super serious then pointing to a small christmas tree they've already put out in the damn pub (way too early i know) and said really seriously 'is santa coming?' worked a charm!!

same place i noticed a new girl and asked if she was new working there, she said yes and i said 'you're the most beautiful barmaid in here'. that worked even better than the joke one her eyes lit up and she seemed super happy and said thank yoooou!!!! (she was incredibly fit as well). now every time i go in there we give each other cheeky looks and smiles need to go in there more often and try n chat her up more.

 

well recently i've used the comedy approach, make out like you're asking them something really serious then when they are focused and thinking 'what's he gonna say' come out with something ridiculous and quite funny.

i kept stopping bar maids in a really funny manner acting super serious then pointing to a small christmas tree they've already put out in the damn pub (way too early i know) and said really seriously 'is santa coming?' worked a charm!!

same place i noticed a new girl and asked if she was new working there, she said yes and i said 'you're the most beautiful barmaid in here'. that worked even better than the joke one her eyes lit up and she seemed super happy and said thank yoooou!!!! (she was incredibly fit as well). now every time i go in there we give each other cheeky looks and smiles need to go in there more often and try n chat her up more.