This is my first post * I have a BF for 4 years. He is 8yrs older than me and I am from asia & never had Sex (only touching & kissing) * He don't have a job and he was very innocent when I meet him. * I forced him to do a job and actually I always make unnecessary fights and he was very patient at the begging * He didn't started to do a job.and because of my unnecessary fights *Now he blame me even for a small mistake and even I talked to him he thinks I am going to start a fight and be rude to me. * I need my love back I need him back now I am going crazy cos of this problem. When i remember how he was I always feel to cry..... (my parents don't like me to marry him so I need his full attention and love after the marriage )
That is not so simple to do. It takes years to run a successful company. If that guy doesn't have a job right now forget about it, he will never achieve that goal until he does have a starting investment. First love hurts but you got to move on and actually meet a mature person with realistic goals
he's a bum. on the other hand, you force him to get a job, start fights for no reason, and won't even have sex with the poor guy.
He wanted a meal ticket and you have control issues, you both make each other miserable and have reduced this to almost total chaos and you suddenly don't want it? Hmmm Sounds fine to me
usually. there's also the people who see that the responses they are getting aren't exactly the responses they're looking for and just don't come back. and sometimes they get back together with their asshole boyfriend and decide that everything is wonderful and they have no need to come back here since the problem is solved.
