I used to be a stoner... and I guess once a stoner always a stoner. Anyway, i was so honest and upfront about everything, hence i was so easy to get along with and i didnt have many worries... so i met this girl and fell in love with her over 2 years ago. At least i thought i loved her and i still do, i can't stop thinking about her and it is driving me crazy... I live in denver, co and i flew to boston, ma two times last year to see her, once for a suprise on her birthday. she seemed so much in love with me, wrote me letters, sent me stuff, called me all the time.. she transfered to denver and i thought it was to be close to me, the first couple weeks she was so into me wanting me to stay with her all the time... then about 2 weeks ago all of a sudden she says i smother her, and she needs her space.. it was a couple days and she was callin me saying she missed me and wanted me to come see her. I was dumb enough to go see her, we slept together and talked about it and she said she wanted to work it out and start over but not as intense as we were before, i asked her what i did and she says nothing. i havent talked to her for like a week and all i can think about is her.. i miss her so bad but i can't bring myself to call her... i hurt more than ever.. seems like i can't get over it.. what should i do? i love her to death and just want her to be happy but i am sick to my stomach and miss her constantly. I really dont know what to do? Later i found out she kissed this kid and said she would go to some dance with him, but she says she doesnt want to go and really doesnt like the guy... or so she tells me. What should i do??
yeah me to but i have a drug test on monday so i will to do that then... but for now its sober me worrying..
Just tell her how much it has been hurting you. Women listen when men talk. And the just don't forget about after you are gone. They usually go overi t in their minds. As far as her kissing another guy, you should tell her that really bothers her, and ask if she really just wants to be with you. If she says no, get out now before you get hurt even worse. Good Communication is always the key.
I agree, you have to get her to give you a straight answer. You can't let something like this consume your time and soul.
