need some suggestions on asking someone out

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by lostdazedintime, Sep 19, 2004.

  1. lostdazedintime

    lostdazedintime Fucked in the head

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    hello, theres this really pretty girl, very attractive with an interest in organic farming and such things, very berkleyish, i want so very much to ask her out but im wooried that she wouldnt be interested, i just dont really feel that she'd be very interested in me or whatever i dunno, i guess im just fretting any suggestions?
     
  2. raver_baby_sound

    raver_baby_sound Member

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    If u aint sure if she actually likes you or not then i suggest you get to know her a bit better first before popping the question which could then dent your male pride (cant have that can we) Yeh i just think you should try to hang around her more than you do, walk next to her, joke with her, ask her what shes up to at the weekend and stuff. I think by doing this it might be easier for you to tell if she does fancy you or not, cos she'll either respond in a good way, yknow flirting back n smiling when she talks to you, stuff like that, or a bad way, which i think you'll be able to figure the bad shit for yourself! So yeh just try this for a while n she'll probably get the impression that you like her and if she responds then go for it!
     
  3. InTheFlesh

    InTheFlesh Member

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    If you start to leave strange phone messages, she might get worried. Get to know her a little bit more. Don't act like a creep, just be kind. Try to sit with her at lunch one day or something. But hell, easier said than done!
     
  4. Elle

    Elle Senior Member

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    Try to catch her eye....and when you do, give her a smile. Once you've looked into someone's eyes and smiled you are no longer strangers..... and that could open up some doors to talking to each other. If you think you can, go up to her and simply introduce yourself, or pay her a compliment next time she walks on by. If you know what she's into, then you already have a good idea of maybe how to start up a conversation with her. Best wishes!
     
  5. steffan

    steffan puffin

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    i can clue you too some signs,,does she go for her hair when you see her? woman and men seem to do this, a grooming thing i guess.
    has she ever "accidently" got closer than was needed, have you slowly leaned in to see if she moves back? (if you do that, wait untill she see's it comming, dont surprise her,) ,, of course the easyest way too tell is in the eyes ;), good luck and remember that fortune favors the bold
     
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