Okay so we broke up for reasons that I am not resentful about, I definitely deserved it. Then we went our separate ways and didn't contact each other for a month. She met a co-worker and was dating him within 2 weeks of our break-up. Then about 1.5 weeks after that, we ended up texting again and she was telling me she was going to dump him for our love. I thought she was fucking with me but then it actually happened. So we have hung out almost every day since, fooling around sometimes but never anything past making out. It's now been a week and we are unsure of what to do. We don't want to rush into anything so we're doing some kind of trial thing before we decide to go for it for real. So like basically I have to be her boyfriend without getting to have sex with her. She wants it too so it's not like she's fucking with me, just wants to wait. I'm just pissed because I have to do this boyfriend stuff, but without even being the last guy whose dick she touched. How do I get this moving along so we can be together and fuckin' again??? Thanks
You want the pussy again?? Listen to what she says...... if you push her watch that pussy walk away again.
haha word to that, but like how should I act when we hang out? I can't figure out what pace to go at or what
yes..yes yes she is absolutely fucking with[out] you and you should absolutely be pissed off ......you should have held out for a better contract
I think you should pretend you are a eunich, unable to have sex, and then actually engage her in your version of witty conversation. I mean, talk to her and listen to her replies. She might find it so sexy her pants fall off.
Haha yeah that's how it started, I was charming and nonchalant. Then I put her back on that damn pedestal and started chasing her away. But I'm determined to just go with it day by day. How should I deal with the fact that we aren't exclusive or certain? It's drivin me crazy
We have been married for 21 years and I have never considered my wife to be either of those, exclusive or certain. She is not my property, she is a person. I always assumed if she was unhappy with me for a length of time (minor disagreements are inevitable) that she would no longer be exclusive or certain. My on-line personality here is pretty harsh because it is anonymous, but in real life, especially with my wife, I have made it a point to cultivate our love for each other. She has a love bank, and every time you do something for her, you put points in the love bank. If they reach a certain level she will want to be physically close to you. Pay attention to the way she looks and give her meaningful compliments. Buy her little stuffed animals. Have a conversation with her. Perceive her as worthy. If you are a teenager, your friends will laugh at you and say you are pussy whipped. How much do you think they actually know about relationships?
