Negative energy

I work as a commis chef/waitress, and spend a lot of time in the kitchen with the head chef. She is a nasty horrid bully and has the most negative, depressing energy. I have always been vulnerable to peoples energy and im wondering how i can protect myself.

There is also a girl there who has two imaginary friends. She talks to them all the time and when anything goes wrong, they are to blame. What are they? Spirit guides? I can definately feel their presence.

Thanks!!!

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If you believe that symbols have powers, try purchasing jewelry which incorporates the Evil Eye. It's can be used as a luck charm to protect yourself from evil. It reflects off the wearer and protects you and any misfortunes they you have. It can also balance you and protect you from bad karma that has a negative effect on your life.



A lot of celebrities wear it to protect themselves from all the negative attention they may receive. Personally, I wear a bracelet with the Evil Eye for luck and protection.
This is a picture of it:

 

Do some searches on "shielding and protection" (of the psychic nature).

 

Tourmaline...

 

Could you always feel energy like this, or did it come to you through meditation?
Are there any other ways to practice increasing your sensitivity, or control over these energies?

 

Cooks are notoriously grumpy. Ask most wait people.

 

I used to work night times at a sports bar and I never ever ever knew one happy chef, lol. They all trod in late at night arms flailing around loud, annoying and hostile. They're also never ever wrong either.

 

I will definately purchase some kind of protective necklace, be it the evil eye, tourmaline etc...thanks!!

Jaredfelix - i have always been extremely sensitive, i remember my mum sending me to a dr because i became hysterical on hearing moving pieces of classical music!! I was only maybe 4 -5!! My mum is sensitive too, and her mother, and her mothers mother was possibly native american indian. We dont know for sure, no one would ever speak of her...Anyway, i just feel energy all around me, all the time. The most i accept and acknowlage it, the more info and answers come my way...its very exiting

I know chefs are grumpy....i do a lot of prep and desserts so i understand the pressure, but she is different. She finds one person and isolates them from the rest of the staff. It can be anyone, on any given day. To be able to be so nice to people and so horrible to another at the same time, i just find it bizarre...

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I cooked in the kitchen of a big resort on the Oregon coast when there was no roofing to do. The head chef always strutted around and barked at the kitchen help,the waitresses, and even the owner!! I was told by the waitresses that it was that way at just about all of the places they ever worked. Become a head chef!!

 

probably the best thing to do is to find a new job, if one is available. even just looking for a new one might help relieve some stress.

I suppose that you could confront the chef or let the owner know that the chef is a problem. the issue may be that the chef has greater job security, and therefor can get away with this behavior. maybe not though. could be that the owner would be willing to give the chef the boot.

you might want to try working in an entirely different field though

I like to keep an open mind about these things. The most plausible explanation is that she is mentally ill. I suppose it could be some sort of spirit thing, but unless there is a substantial reason to think otherwise, I would guess mental illness. She may have suffered abuse in her childhood, and under the stress of abuse from the chef, she is reverting to this coping mechanism.

 

I'm yo huckleberry.

That kind of behavior is all about insecurity, the staff's as well as the chef's.

The best way to overcome abuse in that workplace, is to take initiative and ask questions.

 

If the imaginary friends are to blame for things, they are not spirit guides.

 

the only solution to overcoming negative energy that I've found is making sure your positive energy is stronger.

Start making fun of this chef with your coworkers..lol I know that sounds like horrible advice, but it takes the power away from her to hurt or insult you. There was this horrid woman I used to work with - she was rude and abrupt and would say the most thoughtless things. Everyone eventually caught on and started making fun of her. Childish, yes, but it helped when she said hurtful things and I could look over at another coworker and roll my eyes and laugh it off.