never been able to orgasm during sex without hand..help!

I have had sex with 9 women. Never been able to orgasm during sex without my hand helping me out, even though im very aroused.

 

Try foreplay, oral before hand, ask your g/f to talk dirty!

 

try doing her from behind with her laying flat on her stomach with her legs together.

You straddle her with you legs and enter her from behind.

Because her legs are together, it makes it much tighter, more friction and maybe you can bust a nut in her

 

This is a psychological issue. Maybe take steps like having her do it with her hand, for instance.