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There is really nothing wrong with you and a problem a lot of people have. Your doctor may say that you are hyper sexive. more desire for sex. I am somewhat that way myself. I discovered my wife was a Nympomaniac, wants it all the time. Oh Boy, every man's dream? I was gone a lot which didn't help and she did cheat on me. She thought it was in secret put people told me every time. Otherwise she was a near perfect wife and mother. Her dad cheated all the time but not looking for a replacement , just needed more sex. So i have studded this for quite a while. it can become a Compulsive Cheating Disorder if not controlled.. She could resist for quite a while but sooner or later will trigger. So i had the very same possibility of being a cheater as she was, but i did not though it was not easy to resist at times. we are all up against it. But i was able to relieve the overwhelming urges to stay in control and Not to commit Adultery which is a Sin and a betrayal that is a hurt you will feel forever. There is Unclean food, unclean words, Unclean thoughts. If a man spills seed he is Unclean until sundown" TEMPORARY Unclean, not going to hell and it can help prevent Betrayal threw Adultery. She tried medication threw the doctor that did nothing and self pleasure really didn't control her. Some Adulterers say "Better to cast seed in a whore than on the ground ". Sounds religious?? but is NOT IN THE BIBLE. But "Many things can make a man Unclean but he who commits Adultery is guilty of sin against the Lords body, who's body you are" IS IN THE BIBLE. So i understand your situation and urges and hope you can get relied and control over them . You are an extra Prize for your guy like mine was for me. Our kids think she was the best mom ever and i lost her after 63 years together

 

There is really nothing wrong with you and a problem a lot of people have. Your doctor may say that you are hyper sexive. more desire for sex. I am somewhat that way myself. I discovered my wife was a Nympomaniac, wants it all the time. Oh Boy, every man's dream? I was gone a lot which didn't help and she did cheat on me. She thought it was in secret put people told me every time. Otherwise she was a near perfect wife and mother. Her dad cheated all the time but not looking for a replacement , just needed more sex. So i have studded this for quite a while. it can become a Compulsive Cheating Disorder if not controlled.. She could resist for quite a while but sooner or later will trigger. So i had the very same possibility of being a cheater as she was, but i did not though it was not easy to resist at times. we are all up against it. But i was able to relieve the overwhelming urges to stay in control and Not to commit Adultery which is a Sin and a betrayal that is a hurt you will feel forever. There is Unclean food, unclean words, Unclean thoughts. If a man spills seed he is Unclean until sundown" TEMPORARY Unclean, not going to hell and it can help prevent Betrayal threw Adultery. She tried medication threw the doctor that did nothing and self pleasure really didn't control her. Some Adulterers say "Better to cast seed in a whore than on the ground ". Sounds religious?? but is NOT IN THE BIBLE. But "Many things can make a man Unclean but he who commits Adultery is guilty of sin against the Lords body, who's body you are" IS IN THE BIBLE. So i understand your situation and urges and hope you can get relied and control over them . You are an extra Prize for your guy like mine was for me. Our kids think she was the best mom ever and i lost her after 63 years togethe

 

I agree this happens all the time... but can't a girl just have fantasies and desires and have them satisfied by her partner? Is it a crime?

 

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I really appreciate it. I love God, my husband and my children. I could never fathom sinning against my Father that way or hurting and tearing apart my family. There's been times I prayed for God to take it away from me, but Idk if I'm being honest, I don't know if I mean it with my whole heart. It's something I rely on, I'm afraid of living without it.

 

I do understand. The more we stand the more we will be tested. "Jesus was tempted in All Things, such as we are, but without sin". I have been up against it when there were times i could have lost resistance and even wanted to. I was away from home a lot which is not best for either of us. But i spent hours listening to the bible on tape as i drove. I got more that way than what someone just thinks it means. I try to live the word instead of just hearing and it has been "a lamp unto my feet that i not stumble". Otherwise i could have lost resistance " The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak", whether she does or not. There are "Besetting Sin" that many have no control over. Jesus meet a man, "Legion" that run around naked and lived in the tombs. The guy couldn't help it. Jesus did Not Condemn "you are going to Hell" . The guy already knew that? "Jesus was a friend of sinners". A friend may not always agree with you but he will still be your friend just as he was our friend when we were yet far away. Too often the ones condemned are the very ones we should be reaching with Life. Many of these people know their problem and read the bible diligently and know it better than you do but never able to overcome. My wife repented every Sunday, was anointed with oil, hands laid on and could resist for a long time but sooner or later would trigger. She kept herself very busy, was a Sunday school teacher, a clown for children's church a teachers aid and kids just loved her , She was busy with garden and farm animals, helped me with business and a near perfect mother and wife. So often when people slip and fall they are condemned instead of helped back on their feet again. She never left me and i never gave up on her. I have learned more from the life that i was destined than on my own. When we help others we are actually helping ourself. The more we Resist, the more we are able to Resist// "WATCH & PRAY" Those you cannot physically reach you can still interceded and reach in prayer. The world actually is white unto harvest. Many actually are hungry for the real gospel of Christ, but not for religion. I would rather quote the things that Jesus said than a thousand words of my own