New Here, need advice

Discussion in 'Introduce Yourself!' started by LucyD, May 13, 2013.

  1. LucyD

    LucyD Guest

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    Hi All,
    I am not too sure where to begin or how to do this, but I am looking for advice.
    I have never been in a relationship with a woman. My two very serious relationships have been with men, who have ended up not treating me well. I am currently in a long term relationship with a guy - I have tried ending it many many times but I keep getting sucked back in with him making me feel guilty and horrible about leaving. Part of me wants to leave because he is not always the nicest person - but another part of me wants to leave because I am not attracted to him - or men at all for that matter. I haven't told anyone (except one good friend) about my feelings. I unfortunately grew up with religious parents so human nature itself is something I was taught to feel guilty about. So leaving a relationship to pursue my feelings about women - well its a scary prospect to say the least. I am just wondering if anyone else out there has been in a similar place or if anyone has any advice. Feeling a bit lost.
    -Lucy
     
  2. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Hi Lucy - Welcome to the site.

    We've got Relationship sections and Love and Sex sections that may help you out with what's going on if you read through them or post about your situation in them.

    Let me know if you have trouble finding those areas of the forum.
     
  3. LucyD

    LucyD Guest

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    Thank you Aerianne!
    I think I found it :)
     
  4. midknight_snow

    midknight_snow Member

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    Welcome to the forum, Lucy. I hope you are able to get some help in the Love and Sex forum :)
     

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