my bf told me like a month ago that he wants to have anal sex, i think it is a good idea and i want to try it. i know that with patience and lots of lube there is nothing to be afraid of. the only thing im concerned about is how it really feels. i know it wont feel like vaginal sex and my bf had tried to put a finger or 2 up my ass and after a while it feels really awkward and i make him stop. like i want to poop really bad. and the feeling of something going in its not so bad but the feeling of something going out it feels like i am pooping. Is that the normal feeling of anal sex of it is only because i dont know how to do it?
You've come to the right guy! First of all a little background... I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years, recently engaged..the sex is still fantastic coz of the emotional connection and friendship which was there first! We are both seriously into anal sex...I was always into it and through gentle persuasion and stimulation my girlfriend is at the point where she is now almost addicted to it...it all starts with the mind...suggestive comments allowing her to consider the idea of it before even attempting anything...then massage followed by normal natural lovemaking, bringing her to orgasm many times before my tongue licks lightly over the area...always best if she's turned on first!...if fingers are too much for you try a tongue... Mostly it's in the mind though...if you're new to it and not sure, try reading a variety of erotic stories concerning anal sex and see how it makes you feel...it's one thing if you're boyfriend likes it and you don't you see...obviously my girlfriend and I are at the point where she likes to be spanked...then seriously slammed up the ass regularly, we watch anal porn together etc, but then we are experienced at it and know what we both like, plus she's very submissive and I'm very dominant which is a perfect match sexually... Just a word on the size of cock...definitely use plenty of lubrication...i'm unusually large, very thick shaft with the head of my cock being even bigger than the shaft!...so lubrication is an absolute must...i don't want to hurt her... We've been doing it for years...when I met her she had the tightest anus imaginable...now there's almost a permanent gape due to my size and the force with which I work up to pounding her ass...so it's a good idea to have a few weeks off once in a while. In fact this is what we do...the only time we stop anal is because of this...we wait a few weeks until her anus normalises in size and function... before I slam it the f*ck open again! (such a turn on!) Finally, because of the depth of our relationship, we have never used condoms during anal.. I always like to come in her ass...we are utterly faithful and have no problems in this regard, but you would have to examine your own relationship... There are times when after an anal session my girlfriend asks me to stay inside her and we go to sleep in the spoon position with my cock still inside her...that way if I wake up during the night and I'm usually hard again...i can continue giving her a good anal fuck... I love my petite girlfriend (she's 5'2 i'm 6'0) so we get stares!...I've fucked 3 girls up the ass before her...but now i wouldn't want anyone else...she's got the greatest pair of cheeks imaginable... Sorry for the long post, some of it has been from the guys point of view...but i hope it's helped...if you want to know more e-mail on andirang@hotmail.co.uk... Kind regards, Andrew
hey thanks for the reply!!!!! your relationship looks really hot and i hope mine will get there someday., my bf and me have an open an honest relationship too so we talk about anything. since we r starting something new he has been really caring and comprehensive. Anal sex now for me is really hot and a turn on if i see it (i have been watching a little bit of porn to "learn" stuff) lol. I think i am gonna like it because im also into the submissive part and he is getting more dominant in bed as the relationship goes and i love it. He loves spanking my naughty little butt and i have asked to be slapped in the face a couple of times since i deserve to be treated like the little bitch that i am. We are not into s&m with blood and ropes and extreme stuff tho.... that is scary for me lol. About the size... that is the other thing, he is not what we call "small" and that is what scares me too. Even for my pussy sometimes after a good fuck it gets sored and i have to rest for a day or something to make it better. And the last question is, what about poop? does she get enemas or something to clean down there? im afraid of pushing and making poop come out. Im really curious and i really want to do it but i want to do it right so i can have a nice experience and keep doing it later.
Hey thanks for your reply...sounds like there's similarities in both our relationships and you've said you do find the idea of anal sex a turn on so I can't forsee any problems...like you, we've never been into s&m...but you turned me on when you said you liked getting slapped in the face a bit...see when your relationship is secure and in the heat of passion these things happen...hmmm! For instance i'm so much bigger than my gf that when i'm on top of her f*cking 'normally'...I give her such a good fuck she starts punching me hard in the chest & calling me a bastard!...(that's if i'm not holding her down by her wrists that is!) Yeah, like I say, I have a large cock which gapes her ass & makes her pussy sore so time off is necessary...just makes it all the sweeter when I slam back into those holes again. Forgot to mention about hygiene...duh...for some reason when I have anal it's never messy (if you know what I mean)..but it's possible to use a finger to clean inside the anus wih a bit of soap. WIth the 3 other girls I fucked in the ass there was no problem either...enemas will help, though don't overdo them.. Well any other questions feel free to reply or email me...i gave you the wrong address before..it's andyrang@hotmail.co.uk I'm in a horny haze coz I've just fucked my girl up the ass for most of the night...all 3 holes actually...there's gotta be a balance right?! She's still asleep so after this i'll lay next to her pumping my cock looking at all the dried spunk I shot all over her face... regards, Andrew
I have to interject here to say DO NOT CLEAN THE INSIDE OF YOUR ANUS WITH SOAP! It will hurt like a motherfucker. Enemas are not required either. Just be sure to take a poo about an hour or so before the anal play. It should not be messy, and if it is it's never to much. Just a little poo around the base of his dick. I'm shure he won't mind a bit since he is going to be fucking you ass. Remember to take it really slow, and get a butt plug too. It will help you stretch out and get ready to take him inside you. Have fun!
