Normal or creepy?

This guy is only into younger women. All of the girls he has been with have been at least 2 years younger than him.
He is 21 years old and is currently dating a 17 year old.
Is this okay that he likes younger women and is dating a minor? Or is it weird?

 

I thought the dude you wanted to be with was 9 years older??????
Who's this 21 year old now

 

It's not creepy unless he goes

He's kind of pushing the line since she's 17, but four years isn't that much of an age difrerence.

Most men like younger women.

 

This has nothing to do with me or the older guy.

 

I must be missing something here.

 

No your not missing anything trick. I just want to know your opinion on a 21 year old man dating a 17 year old girl.

 

If it's legal, who cares?
My father is 11 years older than my mother is
My great aunt is 13 years older than her husband is
The person I'm crushing on is 4 years older than I am

 

Are you into him?

 

17 just seems young.. 4 years isnt bad... but 17, meh i dont know.. they can be immature. Im only 20, im not some really old person criticizing younger people.. but I know i wouldnt be with a 17 year old :-/

Its up to them... it could be a mature 17 year old... My Da is 11 years older than mama

 

They can be? They are immature. "Hey honey want to check out this bar with me?" ... "NO.. I have highschool in the morning and I'm not old enough"

Come on. It's legal... yaya, guys are into younger chicks yaya
But to me it's weird.

THEN AGAIN
I like men twice my age. SO whooo am I to say anything.

 

Hey baby....

 

Hah somehow I knew you would say that. Hello lol.

 

Location: The true north strong and free

Canada eh ?

 

yup.

 

Been there done that. It was actually a long-term relationship for me, but the girl was actually 16 going on 17 when I started going out with her. No one thought it was creepy. My last ex was 13 years younger than me. Nobody thought it was creepy. But then they all knew me well enough to know I'd never do anything creepy to begin with.

Some people just click better with people outside of their own age group. For some, that's younger, while for others, that's older. I myself click better with younger people and, as the result, I've never dated anyone older than I am. It's just how it works for some people. Nothing strange or creepy there, unless that person actually does something creepy and harmful.

 

I think it's fine. As long as it's legal/moral. I usually like girls older than me (I'm bi tho and actually with guys I'm usually into younger dudes, like a couple years younger.) I think it's totally normal, everyone has their preference.

 

"Only into younger women"..so its not the situation where a 21yr old man is with a specific 17yr old woman. Its that he only wants 17 yr old women.

Being with a particular younger girl is not creepy (although the sheriff might have issues if she is 17)

But a 21 yr old guy who is only into 17-19 yr olds, who rejects 21 yr old women, yes that is creepy.

 

not creep at all! haha. I think anyone from 20-29 is a normal dating range

and 19-16 seems normal to me too. but where I live it is illegal for anyone 18 and up to date someone under 18. which I think is stupid.

but girl do gotta keep in mind that a lot of times when older guys like 20 and stuff date young girls they are just looking for some young pussy.

 

about once ever two months I will read in the news paper about some male high school teacher getting busted for hooking up with a 17 year old girl. naughty little girls tempting older men.

 

I'm 21 in June. :2thumbsup: