Not being loud during sex?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Stevie19, May 31, 2011.

  1. Stevie19

    Stevie19 Member

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    I'm not loud at all when I have sex, even when it feels good. I think part of the reason is because I'm scared that the guy will think I'm weird, and I think that my moans won't sound sexy.
    But I don't want to try and force myself to do it.
    What should I do? Do guys like the sounds of women being vocal?
     
  2. -fleur-

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    Some do, some don't. In my opinion you shouldn't try to be sexy as the principal thing but enjoy the sex. In case you don't feel comfortable groaning or whatever, just don't do it. Take your time.
     
  3. p0ly

    p0ly Senior Member

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    yes make noise!! one of my friends described sex with this weird girl he got with 'it was like fucking a dead corpse'
     
  4. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    If you want to groan then do it, if you want to scream then do that, if you are a quite person and don't say anything that is alright also. just be yourself.
     
  5. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    Don't be completely silent ... a little sign that he's "doing the right thing" is nice. Let him know what you like.
     
  6. Naughtyme206

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    It is a turn off if a girl is totally quiet. A turn on is if the girl just does as she feels like doing. so if you want to get vocal, then do so, it will turn him on even more!!!
     
  7. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    how are women and tornadoes alike?

    They both moan like hell when they come, and take the house when they leave.


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  8. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    sorry if i offended anyone. lol


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  9. tuesdaystar

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    I'm not often loud. little noises are usually intentional.

    those sincere, uncontrollable, ecstatic cries are such a rare treat

    i love when they're simultaneous, even better than simultaneous orgasm is that one thrust that makes you both cry out together
     
  10. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Easy tuesdaystar you are getting me excited.
     
  11. LovesLiquid

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0G7eDpMGe1k"]YouTube - ‪Agnes - Release Me [Official Video]‬‏
     
  12. griffon

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    Be vocal. The worst thing is a partner who is stone cold silent. Necrophilia is not my cup of tea.
     
  13. RawAndNatural

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    I think this is the best answer. Just be yourself. I do think that it is good to be responsive, but there are ways to be responsive without being loud.

    I value authentic responsiveness, and as a generalization, I don't like "loud", but sometimes it's ok if it fits the scenario.
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    fake moaning is annoying as shit.
     
  15. broony

    broony Banned

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    maybe your not with the right person, jack-hammers in bed usually get everyone to moan.
     
  16. 1r0n_0x1d3

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    If you need a 5 horsepower machine in bed then i think you have bigger problems then moaning.
     
  17. haha_wintaaa

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    i'd rather nail a corpse than an annoyingly loud fake pornstar.
    that being said, i don't have a penis so my opinion doesn't count.

    I'm not loud. Maybe it's just because my boyfriend sucked.
     
  18. Flare88

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    I'm generally pretty quiet. lol it's from all that practice growing up with family members within hearing distance hahaha. But I find it so hot when my guy makes pleasure noises and that usually gets me going... and it just escalates from there. I think making vocal noises enhances things. Usually he makes a noise and then I'll make a fake noise then he makes a louder noise bc me making noises turned him on more..and then I'll make a real noise haha if that makes sense.
     
  19. enchantedpagan012

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    Most guys enjoy it...hell a lot of girls do too lol.
     
  20. Sexless_harpy

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    quiet girls are a turn off; If I was doing it I'd need some feedback otherwise my hand can accomplish the same goal for free
     

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