Lately, my boyfriend hasn't been in the mood to do anything sexual. I reached out to grab his 'area' last night and he freaked out and said, "whoah...what are you doing?" I was surprised because he used to be the hornier one...hahahaha. Now, I have to be rather aggressive. It's kinda silly. I wish he would get in the mood like he used to be. When guys get in the mood and keep grabbing you, it tells you that they are really attracted to you. I was born with confidence; we all are...but unfortunately, this has been making me feel less attractive because I can't just instantly turn him on anymore. I'm beginning to think it's the medication he's been taking. I looked up the side effects and decreased sex drive is one of them. I'm not sure if it's the side effects of the medication or if it's him. Has anybody ever been in this situation? What happened and what did you do? Any tips on making someone horny who isn't in the mood? Thanx!
After reading the rest of your posts I decided to delete my response. There is nothing I can say that is going to help you or your situations. Good luck!
maybe grabbing his crotch isnt the best seduction method when his libidos low most guys have a drop in the sex drive due to stress in their lives. do you know what hes stressed out about? can you help that in any way? can you try some subtler seduction techniques that might make him feel sexy and in the mood before going straight fro the groin? ie, play with his hair, nibble on his neck, trace your hands lightly over his chest, give him a massage, tell him how sexy he is, how wet you are, etc (buidl up to the how wet you are, but it can still be a fun one)
