So I got lucky earlier this year.. I was talking on Craigslist about something totally different, and after a week or two of messages, this woman came over. She didn't even ask for my pic (although I found hers since she used her full name) and little by little, we eventually had sex. During fore-play, my teasing got her, and she just demanded me to stick it in her. I had condoms inches away, but I didn't want to say or imply that she was dirty and that I demanded to wear one. We had sex that one time, and that was it. No problems (yet), crossing fingers.. She is 9 years older, and a bit too old to have kids, and I did cum inside her, but as long as there's no STDs, I'll feel like I got away with it and keep it in my pants for a while.
Good luck with that! An ounce of prevention is better than an 8 pound baby with a stranger. I understand some women can give birth into their 60s now.
I know there is always that one time. The one time you catch something. I'm sterile so there's no PG issue. But the odds of STI's happening are so low the risk is manageable. I'm not against condom use. Used them plenty of times but if conditions warrant I have no issue going bare. Had a one time meet up straddle my bare cock in cowgirl and before she sat down she asked if it was okay. What was I to say? I nodded and she sat fully on my cock and fucked me. Not one thought entered my mind before or after that I might catch something from her and die because she fucked me bare back.
In this modern era, there is no girl out there basically that doesn’t know about protection, so unless by force, I see no reason why the guy should feel guilty. For STDs, there are more and more vaccines and morning after medications that “no condom” is becoming quite a bit safer in recent decades. Not fool proof, but neither is condom!
Between my wife, fwb, fb and other partners and encounters I am firm about wearing a condom with other partners. At 63 most of my encounters are with those in my age group but occasionally there will be someone in their 40s. It is better to have mutual respect and safety.