:& I used ot love to be nude or close to it but now since I had my son and have a bad c-section scare and a little bit of left over baby fat ( I am alos flat chested), I am to embaressed. I give you guys lots of credit for being so open.
There's no reason to be embarassed, all of those things are perfectly normal and if you go nude the people around you who really care about you wont say a thing about it. If someone said something bad about you having that scar or having baby fat or being flatchested then just ignore them cuz theyre not worth your time to worry about. Trust me, im sure you look very beautiful and quite natural.
I had a C-section, too. I know how you feel. Don't be ashamed. 1/4 of all moms who gave birth last year have the same scar. You're not alone! That scar shows that you're a mom, which is something to be proud of!
I way agree here! Find beauty in your so-called "flaws"- the scar means you brought a beautiful child to the world AND survived surgery, the baby fat means your body is protected and warm, and the flat chest is great beacause (and I'm saying this as a fellow no-boober!) you can run, and do jumping jacks, and go braless, and you don't get backaches! Trust me, you're beautiful and should be very proud of all this!
I recommend looking up information about naturism, as opposed to just being naked. The basic idea is that every body is good, your body, my body, and everybody's body. In the naturist universe, the idea of some bodies as "better" than others is rejected, and that also includes the results of the various misadventures that a lot of us encounter during our lives. Our society puts so much emphasis on being "attractive", especially for women, that it can be difficult to get into a state of mind where it's not important, but we can do it if we want to. Obviously, if a person were to go naked with an "imperfect" body among people who were only looking for the gorgeous ones (by their own set of criteria, of course) then it wouldn't be a happy experience, but if you know who you'll be with it can be a really positive experience, and as good as a whole string of apointments with a therapist! Accepting ourselves and each other is such a fine thing to do--our bodies ought to be what reminds us of our shared humanity.
