I just realized recently that I always wanted a little sister to protect. My only sister is six years older than me, and is much more likely to protect me than vice versa. I think i projected these feeling towards one of my cousins, and to the first girl i had a crush on. It seems like throughout my entire life i've wanted to protect a women i cared about, but wasn't able to.
Sounds pretty healthy to me, i mean dont go overboard because being protective can be good but if you dont it too much women will think you are trying to control them. Any way this was an alright thread but a lousy confession